I been txting this guy for 2 months so we knew each other quite well but hadnt meet 1 night he txtd me saying he was driving up to see his friends who live 2 hours from where i live but he got a flat tire about 5 mins from my house & asked if he could stay at my house for the night & sort it out in the morn so i agreed i live out of town and there realy is nowhere else to stay when you no nobody so he came up to my house and i got him some blnkets and said that he could sleep on the couch then i went to bed it was quite late then about half an hour later he came into my room and got i my bed and i asked him what he was doing and he said that it was to cold on the couch and uncomftoble and if he could please sleep my bed cos i hve alot of room since its a duble so i let him he started touchin me & i kept puling his hand away saying no i just got tired of it he tried bout 6 times so the next time he tried i just let him do it i no he wuldv kept til he got his way & more things hapend
2007-08-28 21:08:20 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
I'm sorry you had this experience. I hope you learn something from it. That being, texting someone doesn't mean you "know them quite well"...a person you've never met before, spending the night at your house is a risk you should have never taken. How old are you and he? Where was your mother? Do you live alone? That guy could have killed you! What were you thinking? Don't ever do that again. You can't "know" someone just from texting them, or talking to them on the internet... there are all kinds of psychos out there. I'm not trying to blame you for what happened to you. But I AM trying to scare you. You are lucky something worse didn't happen to you.
2007-08-28 21:46:17 · answer #1 · answered by It's Ms. Fusion if you're Nasty! 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I call it the longest run-on sentence I have ever seen in my entire life...
You were very foolish.
It's kinda late to be asking 'what should I do now', dontcha think? What's done is done; hopefully you have learned how gullible and foolish you are and will never put yourself in such a situation again.
That's the best-case scenario; that's all that can be salvaged from this mess. Chalk it up to experience.
Good thing he didn't chop your head off with his favourite killin' axe (affectionately named "Mary Sue") while you slept.
That was sooooooooooooo stupid of you...don't tell either of your parents. They will not let you stay alone again until you are 30. Alternatively, they may ground you until you are 30. What's done is done, learn from it, move on and never let it (or something similar) happen again. These men PREY on girls. Do you understand??? They are not nice people. They are not good people. They are predators and never to be trusted. I mean it: they look for the naiive ones, the more naiive and child-like, the better their chances are of getting what they want. You need to lean to come accross STRONGER. That would include not putting up strangers in your home for the night. Thankfully, he wasn't interested in making a wig from your own real hair (scalp included).
2007-08-28 21:33:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I call this completely rediculas. You're young, and obvisouly ignorant, so i will try and be gentle... NEVER LET SOMEONE IN YOUR HOME YOU DONT KNOW. I dont care how many text messages have been sent, conversations exchanged over the instant messanger or myspace blogs, people can hide their true colors very easily over computers0 and or cellphones. And sadley, even in real life. Just be sure you really know who the guy is you let in your home. And when i say that i mean more than his name and the kind of car he drives. Oh and by the way where the hell were your parents? Ugh.. i feal so sorry for you because what happend was in my eyes sexual assault. Because A - by the sounds of things your under 18, and B - If this guy is driving and extremely desperate for a piece of tail, chance he is 18 or older. But please next time stand up for yourself, it could have been alot worse. If you ever see this guy again cock punch him for me or get someone else to do it for you. Maybe... dad?
2007-09-01 17:36:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to tell your parents immediately and dont let people in your house in the middle of the night anymore. You made a mistake that your parents need to be aware of. You must immediately set some boundries for the people around you ie,
You dont text or answer the phone after a certain hour and you do not meet people for the first time at your house at night. I would recommend you stick to hanging out with people who live in your neighborhood and your school friends. Stop meeting people on the phone or online it is dangerous.
TELL YOUR MOM!!!!!
2007-08-28 21:21:18 · answer #4 · answered by Bluemoon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
[I been txting this guy for 2 months so we knew each other quite well ]
You can't "know" someone from texting them for a couple of months. You let a stranger into your home. That was the first mistake. That is if your post actually happened. I suspect a fabrication here.
2007-08-29 02:20:34 · answer #5 · answered by Mr.Longrove 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is a creep...
NEVER let people like that come over and meet you like that...
Although you both were talking for a few months and stuff, even if he got a flat tire and stuff, he should of been able to call his friends that lived a few hours away...
IT WAS NOT YOUR RESPONSIBILITY to take care of him, you tried to be nice to him and you got taken advantage of....
Did he really respect you or was he just pulling your strings to get what he only wanted? the story he said sounds quite shady... creeps do these things with sob and help me out stories to get nice people like you into situations in which then youre taken advantage of...
Sorry to hear about youre experience with a creep...
But it sounds like you been set up and he knew you enough to know what to say to manipulate you...
If youre going to meet someone, meet them at a public place with plenty of people around, never a stranger in your house... yea, you both have been texting for a few months, but did you know he was a creep before he invited himself under 'shady' circumstances?
I hope he doesn't end up stalking you... because if he is the type of person I think he is, it may end up going that way...
2007-08-28 21:27:06 · answer #6 · answered by Dee_Smithers 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
That is rape. If you just did it cause he could have kept on till he got his way its rape but gentle rape from a gentleman who is with a sick twisted mind. That's what happened to me and now I'm pregnant as a result of guys like that. But you know even if you try to report it to the police station they say you also wanted it. So I leave such situations to God to be the avenger as 1Thessalonians I cant remember the chapter, says. God is the avenger of such people who take advantage of others and expose them to sexual immorality.
2007-08-28 22:09:46 · answer #7 · answered by maua 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun... If he made you have sex with him, that's RAPE, and even if he didn't it's still mollestation, and assault. You need to go down to the police station and tell them what you've said here, and they will ask you to go into detail, they will ask for all information you have on him, be sure to give them his phone number. It'll be your decision if you want to press charges or not, but even if you don't want to, you still need to go down there so they have it on file if you change your mind later about pressing charges. This may not be what you want to do, but IT IS WHAT YOU NEED TO DO.
2007-08-28 21:23:34 · answer #8 · answered by LuLu 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
How naive are you? This sounds like some very bad decision making in your part.
2007-08-29 06:05:25 · answer #9 · answered by steve.57343 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you got raped...but not the kinda rape you normally envision when you hear the word, but you were coerced into having sex when you didnt want to...dont ever speak to him again, and get checked for stds and seek counceling
2007-08-28 21:16:48 · answer #10 · answered by sherrill 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋