Do you think it okay to sleep with someone on your first date with them? I think it is not okay. Whether you do or not, I would really appreciate your thoughts. Thank you.
2007-08-28 18:17:45 · 20 answers · asked by Michelle 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
it really shouldn't matter what century it is. morals shouldn't really change like that. i mean, i think that its ok to have sex before marrage, but only if you are planning to marry the person. and on the first date? thats just rediculous. a person above me said that if you"really love the person" its ok. but i mean, you can not tell on the first date if you really love a person. thats just stupid. so i think its not ok. i mean, maybe after a WHILE at least, you should wait for like 4 or 5 dates. and thats when the relationship is getting serious. but thats just what i think, and not everybody has to agree. so w/e.
2007-08-28 18:25:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not okay. I've done that too many times, and I'm ashamed to say, sometimes it wasn't even a date. Now that I'm older, I regret it. I guess I didn't have enough self esteem to think a guy could just like me for who I am, without the sex. Also, I respect sex for what it's meant to be. It's not to be thrown around carelessly. Sex goes so much deeper than just the physical act.
2007-08-29 01:41:32 · answer #2 · answered by Jenn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope. especially as a woman YOU have most of the worries. You will be called a slut whereas the guy will be called a player, YOU will get the disease, YOU will have to choose between abortion or birth. My friend got pregnant on her first time to a married man and they used a condom - she aborted and said it was the most painful thing she had ever done (and she has given birth before), my other friend got Chlamydia (sp) and pregnant with a guy on her first night and she can't even tell her parents bc/ they will most likely kick her out....ugh...as good as it looks on tv - it's a mess
2007-08-29 01:23:34 · answer #3 · answered by christie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not right, but it is a common practice. I'm in a relationship with a person that I slept with on the first date...we've been together for two years!
2007-08-29 01:23:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not on the first date. If and when u care for them the i say OK.
2007-08-29 02:01:39 · answer #5 · answered by tony s 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think its ok. I feel its sending a message that your easy. Not worth waiting or working for. Thats my feeling about that. My last boyfriend. We dated for 8mo. we never slept together I was so glad about that when we broke up. It only makes things worse.
2007-08-29 01:23:12 · answer #6 · answered by Trish 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can't say its not okay for anyone to do, because i'm not gonna judge people who do it. But I know I personally wouldn't be okay with it
2007-08-29 01:23:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope, it's not ok, because then they would just use you for the sex. Unless you are looking for a long-term booty call, that's not the way to go.
2007-08-29 01:27:46 · answer #8 · answered by blahdeblah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably not the best choice, but I can understand how it could happen. And it is just sex then, no relationship potential.
2007-08-29 01:24:27 · answer #9 · answered by dizzkat 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
NO WAY. That's just sl**ty to me. Sorry about the language, but I couldn't really describe it lol
2007-08-29 01:21:54 · answer #10 · answered by Allison~ 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋