okay i am dead serious ok theres this guy that i sort of like ok
well he is sort of the bad bad boy type he sneaks around wit girls at school and sh*T BUT thats beside the point my best friend says he bad for me cuz im smart really smart like advanced classes smart and shes afraid that hell drag me down i have know problem getting him he flirts wit me he hugs me vert tightly (to tight) every tiime he sees me but the question he likes to play his girlfriends badly he hurts girl i guess u could call him a minature playa i like him alot but i'm afraid of getting hurt should i listen to my girls or listen to my heart?
2007-08-28 15:30:04 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
heyy i live in ny 2 :P
and im also in a gifted class-lmao do i no u?playin
ok so this guy, he does sound like playa.i would suggest avoiding him.he doesnt seem like a very good person.if u did happen 2 bcome his girl-dont u think he wudnt relli love u?dont u think he wud b the type to show u off to his friends and thats it?u dont want that, ur a person, u shouldnt b treated that way.and the fact that he hangs out w/ a lot of girls is not good-he probaby got a lot of girlfriends that he hurt and cheated on and ignored.i say u can crush on him but dont get ur hopes up focus on ur studies and no touchy.
gl =D
2007-08-28 15:49:21 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in most cases i wuold say follow ur heart but in this case listen to ur girls,they is observing wat he is doin while u just luv struck. He has a bad rep id say leave him. U said u are smart think about all the trouble he can get u in. He can take ur mind away from school and other important things.Then again i never met the guy.If u kno he's bad news stay AWAY.It's for ur own good!
2007-08-28 17:42:44 · answer #2 · answered by kabona hoekene motha lova 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should listen to your friends on this one. Even though you may like him now and become his girlfriend, he might hurt you so much more if/when he cheats on you. He sounds like the kind of person to do that. Anyway, you should make a decision that is more comfortable for you.
2007-08-28 16:14:35 · answer #3 · answered by DCD4 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your girls. They can see this loser for what he is because they are not blinded by a crush. No guy, I repeat, no guy is worth bringing down your grades or losing your friends over.
2007-08-28 15:51:45 · answer #4 · answered by JJ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should listen to your friends...i mean they are just trying to look out for you and if you don't see what they see then you should try being his friend like a real good friend and try to get into his mind and she how he really is...but other than that if you want to get hurt den date him because you already know how he treats his other g/f no offense but what do you think makes you so special?
think with your head(but i mean think throughly)
but go with your heart(only if you want to test it out but don't let your gaurd down real fast, be aware of his past!)
2007-08-28 15:59:22 · answer #5 · answered by pinky1128 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try to find out more on this boy.
Pray about it
If you find that he isn't the right one or that he is too abusive then trust your girls they obviously know you better than he would so it's totally up to you and your heart
good luck!
2007-08-28 17:43:15 · answer #6 · answered by Rae 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, i would go with my heart. As long as you go into the relationship aware of the fact that he is a "player" , and you can accept if he cheats on you, then it is fine. As far as grades go, he probably won't effect any grades. And if he does tell him that you have to watch your grades. that they are starting to slip
2007-08-28 16:20:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes its better to listen to your friends rather then your heart.
2007-08-28 15:46:54 · answer #8 · answered by Small♥Town♥Girl 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
you should listen to your girls that guy has nothing positive to give you. He only want to use you as he did with other girls.
2007-08-28 15:41:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
ohhhh don't even mess with him!! I have had friends who were in that situation and some (sadly) have chosen wrongly..they went with the guy and when they came back they were used and distraught. don't even consider it....please!! (the hugging thing...he's messing with you!!)
2007-08-28 16:08:36 · answer #10 · answered by Noelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋