If you could talk to a love one, that had passed away what would you say to them?

Question

I would tell my mother in law, that I love her and I'm sorry that I never got to say goodbye.

Answer 1

I would ask my husband : Did I tell you often enough that I love you? and I will never again be loved by someone the way you loved me. I would also tell him I'm sorry we didn't get to say goodbye. I'd ask him if he thought I did ok with our kids.

Answer 2

That I am sorry that we didn't spend more time together. That I didn't say thanks for all the love and support.

To my father-in-law I would say that life hasn't been the same and that my husband and I miss him terribly. That I'm grateful for the son that he raised and how he raised him. That I miss my "Happy Birthday" signs. That I remember our last conversation but that I never imagined that it would be our last.

To my friend Audrey, I would say that life was too short and she was so grand. That I felt really close to her and that I miss her something awful. That someday there will be grandchildren that will never know how amazing she was. That I miss all of her baking but mostly the kindness and understanding that she gave me and all of us that knew her.

Anybody reading this should take note and take advantage of every living second they have with those that matter.

Answer 3

I'd tell my grandmother Penny that I miss her and wish she was still here today. She died of lung cancer last year. She had smoked for several years. I'd ask my friend, Nico, why he did not wear a seatbelt when his friend was driving 80 mph in a BMW. I would tell him how much I miss him and how hard it was to come to grips with his death. He died in a serious one-car accident in 2005, that also killed a classmate of mine. I was thinking about them yesterday, as I was looking at sun rays in the sky. I believe it's the boys and my grandmother coming out to say hello. There's a quote I found in a Chicken Soup book that relates well: "The soul would have no rainbow had the eyes no tears."

Answer 4

I would tell my Dad how much I missed having him as much as an adult as I did as a child when he passed and I so wish I could have told him Goodbye, I will love him always.

Answer 5

Well, my step-grand-mother, Agnes, passed away years ago so I think I'd say that I also never got to say goodbye and that I miss her! Sorry for your loss!

Answer 6

I would actually just like a hug from my sister. She already knew how much I love her. She was killed in a house fire, so there was no chance to say goodbye.

Answer 7

I would say I was sorry that I didn't come visit him when he was in the hospital. I thought he was going to get better, and I would wait until he was up and around.

My loved ones know I love them. But when they die suddenly, it hurts so bad, and I want to be forgiven.

Answer 8

I would tell my daughter that I love and miss her very much..I would ask what she wanted to say when she called out for me, right before she passed...Also is there anything special she wants me to do for her children she left behind.

Answer 9

well im going to answer this question and be serious unlike other people. i would talk 2 my great grandmother and ask her why she didn't tell anyone about part of her life. and i would tell her im sorry i didn't get to know her better. and lastly i would say i love you and good bye. this was a good question

Answer 10

I lost my grandma when I was 11 so I'd tell her that I have missed so much the opportunity to talk to her as I have gotten older.