Ok my friends are moving all the way 2 Bakersfield in november we will have been friend 4 a entire year but thier mooving tomorrow morning!!! How do I deal please help me I'm going 2 miss them hella badly!!!!
2007-08-28 13:42:07 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I'm going 2 live like hella far from them like hundreds of miles!!!
2007-08-28 13:46:07 · update #1
Ok I'm only liking some of the answers so far I'm going to live in napa and they TILL TOMORROW MORNING lives in ac(american canyon)I can't just go c them right now cause I don't have their former adress & i'm only 14 will be 15 in a month & 2 days some of u guys r saying keep in touch go on myspace,or E-mail them go c them 4 vacation I'm already planing on doing that!!!! & I have like 3 other friends but how do I deal when I don't c them there the whole reason my dad let me accually get a Myspace & stuff.!!!
2007-08-28 13:59:08 · update #2
I'm sorry to hear that you'll be losing your friends. Remember you will always have the Internet, the telephone and if you are old school write letters to each other. Plan some trips down to visit them on your time off or like wise for them to visit you. Remember that friendship does not end just because someone moves away but it helps you realize and appreciate them more when they are gone. Spend as much time as you can with them until November. Build some good memories, take lots of pictures and make a scrap book. You're going to be ok, it just takes time getting use to
2007-08-28 13:51:19 · answer #1 · answered by Kate 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's why God invented the Internet.
JK, But seriously, there are always vacations, telephones and computers. But moving doesn't happen over night, you should have started preparing ahead of time.
You'll obviously need to find some new friends, hopefully you haven't distanced yourself from everyone, as certain clicks tend to do. And keep in touch with them.
2007-08-28 13:46:59 · answer #2 · answered by Avillie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, there are ways around this. There's always email & the phone. I know it's not the same, but at least you've got that.
Another thing is if you have long weekends, maybe you could take turns visiting each other.
Then again, you could end up meeting more friends, possibly better friends. Stranger things have happened.
2007-08-28 13:50:56 · answer #3 · answered by mustangbethie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have e-mail, IM, phones and can probably arrange to spend the longer holiday weekends with them. It will take some planning and adjustment, but it can be done.
Make sure you have exchanged all your contact info before they leave.
Now, when one door closes, another usually opens. Chances are, a fresh friend will show up shortly.
2007-08-28 13:47:42 · answer #4 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lauren i'm sorry to here that your friends are moving away. That is just apart of life that people go through. Trust me you'll make new friends as time goes on. You can still communicate with them via telephone and email. They were your friends because you were a friend. Continue to be friendly and i promise you you'll make new friends.
2007-08-28 13:49:05 · answer #5 · answered by demlimbas 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are just going to have to be sad a bit. It will pass, you will come to terms with it, and you will meet new people. It's the way of life. I grew up in the military and met and had so many different friends that I sometimes couldn't even remember them when they walked up to me and talked to me like we were best buddies. It never gets easier, but it will pass.
2007-08-28 13:47:05 · answer #6 · answered by Marc 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This happens, and u have to deal.. keep in touch, write, text, email, call... anything you can to keep in touch.. make plans to go out to visit on holidays or for your friends to come see you too!! Make a day of the week when you know you will call each other just to chat for 10 mins or something and keep in touch every other way you can!
Make other friends and put yourself out there to be other peoples friends!! It will work out...
2007-08-28 13:46:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I moved away after 9th grade. I know how this feels. It is hard! But you can do it. Write, e-mail, and call often, but more importantly... make new friends as well. They can't replace your old friends, but you'll be unhappy if you only have long-distance friends. Make new friends to hang out with and your new friends will as well. Have fun- these are the best years!
2007-08-28 13:46:13 · answer #8 · answered by Crystal W 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
get their home address from them, you should by now have an email address and their phone numbers.
use what you have to stay on touch its not the end of the world.
spend time with them NOW instead of panicking on here.
I mean it (and forget the points)
leave the crazy computer and do something about it.
i hope this helps
take care
2007-08-28 13:48:49 · answer #9 · answered by ethnhunt2000 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yall havent been friends for that long but if you cant get over it just write them alot and call them. then you can also make plans to go and see each other for vacations.
2007-08-28 13:47:54 · answer #10 · answered by bxshorty064 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋