i want to be straight again and i am afraid i am going to hell! and i am really really really scared about that! =( plz help me
2007-08-28 13:30:56 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Did you choose to be gay?
No?
God made you like this. He wouldn't send you to hell because of it!
You can't change your orientation. You can try, but it will only lead to more sadness and confusion.
2007-08-28 13:33:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 2⤋
I'm not sure what you mean by being straight "again." You make it sound like somehow you "changed" from a straight person into a gay person. That doesn't happen no more than you can change from a gay person into a straight person. You are either gay or straight. If you have desires for men and women, you are bisexual.
You need to accept the sexual orientation you were given by God. To do anything else would be unnatural.
Don't get mixed up in the "ex-gay" scams. All major mental health organizations say they do not work. Thousands and thousands of ex-ex-gays say it doesn't work and some were even harmed by it. Some even try to commit suicide while trying to change something which cannot be changed. You will spend lots of money and time and at the end, you will be right back where you started.
You can be a Christian and gay. I am. Pray to God for guidance on this issue.
2007-08-28 21:03:42 · answer #2 · answered by Michael B - Prop. 8 Repealed! 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
The wonderful thing about the world is its infinite diversity. Sexuality is one of those areas of human diversity. If you look at a line and mark one end completely heterosexual and the other end completely homosexual most people fall somewhere within the middle. No one is completely one way or the other. you are either to the right or left of center.
No one knows exactly why this happens. Homosexuality has been observed in other mammals and birds. But research is showing that a great deal of it's biology. There may be some psycho-social tipping point involved.
The bottom line is: We are what God made us. It's time you made peace with who you are. And become the best person you can humanly be.
Good luck, Love!
2007-08-28 20:47:23 · answer #3 · answered by mediahoney 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I put this on alot of most of my answers
“You don’t need anybody to tell you who you are or what you are. You are what you are!.”
John Lennon
It is such a true thing
Plus if god made you and you are gay then god made gay people so would god send something he made stright to hell i dont think so. Listen Just be you dont worry about other people. In the long run by trying to be somthing your not your letting the people that hate us win!!!!
Check that link out i give you
i hope you find your way any time you wont to talk you can email me yankees483@yahoo.com
2007-08-28 22:58:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok idiot you are not going to hell(i believe in reincarnation so i don't think your going to hell or heaven yet at least not till like the end of the world) and u can't just change what u are unless u aren't really gay u just think u are it happened to me before and it waz all cause of my stupid homo friend . well how can u be really sure u're gay.
BY the way email me so u can tell how u can be soo sure u're gay
2007-08-29 20:56:15 · answer #5 · answered by nothing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure if this will help since obviously some bigots have gotten to you first, but please remember this to answer the religious fanatics. If God makes everyone, then he makes gay people too. You are no more wrong for being gay than I am for being straight. You are a human being who has every right to say who you are attracted to and who you want to be with. You shouldn't be miserable just to please other people who are mostly quite miserable themselves. Always remember, if God is real, he is a god of love, not of condemnation as many religious fanatics would have you believe. Best of luck in life AND love.
2007-08-28 20:37:18 · answer #6 · answered by ret2go83 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
How can I put this.....you were NEVER straight. So, you cannot become straight "again".
You're not going to hell for being gay. The sooner you can accept that and yourself, the sooner you can get on and have a decent life.
2007-08-28 20:40:55 · answer #7 · answered by jewel_mayhew 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I don't think you can just up and turn gay or up and turn straight. You need not to be asking people for help in these kinds of situations, turn to God. There are some gay christians that are open about their homosexuality but don't live the lifestyle, like Donnie McClurkin. Read this passage from one of his books:
'Eternal Victim, Eternal Victor'
"The abnormal use of my sexuality continued until I came to realize that I was broken and that homosexuality was not God's intention... for my masculinity."
He then describes himself as going through a process by which he became "a saved and sanctified man".
2007-08-28 20:39:50 · answer #8 · answered by willyweston 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
You were never straight. You just realized you were gay when your hormones kicked in. If you don't accept yourself you life will be horrible. I know because I tried to deny for months! (many go longer, but thankful I got out of the endless cycle)!
2007-08-28 20:34:42 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Dude, you're so gay. God made you that way...he made me that way as well. Wanna hook up later? I <3 buttsechs. plz 2 be butsechsing me?
2007-08-28 21:37:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋