its my first going out... in principle each one pays his/her but since i invited her is there any chance that she is expecting me to pay? i dont wanna look stupid
2007-08-28 12:53:18 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Dining Out ➔ Other - Dining Out
i forgot to mention i have 16 years and not very much money in my wallet
2007-09-01 00:41:30 · update #1
Is she expecting you to pay? Of course. Should you? No way. You don't have to pay for her. All girls are used to people giving them whatever they want, so why don't you try to buck the trend? If you make it known that you're not an open wallet you will stand out as well. Just about every guy will shell out the cash for women, so take the high road my man. Set yourself apart and you will save money and end up with more play.
2007-08-28 22:13:33 · answer #1 · answered by The Ball Coach 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did you make it clear you were going "dutch"? You should make sure before you actually go so she does not show up with no money.... I would say that a lot of people expect if they are invited out the other person will pay....
2007-08-28 20:01:21 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes.. you should definitely pay since you're the one that invited her. she might try to pay for some too, but don't let her if you see this girl as more than a friend. she'll be very flattered and want to go on a second date with you if she knows your not cheap and if she is interested.
2007-08-28 21:34:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
There's a high chance shes expecting you to pay for her dinner, since you invited her out.
But in the case of putting it like this, " hi, lets go/can we go out and have dinner?" she will know she's spending on her own.
If you think she should pay for her dinner, make it clear for her before you go.
2007-08-31 06:56:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you invited her out, you should pay. Ideally, it'll happen like this. Check comes, you reach for your wallet. She reaches for her purse, and you say, "No, please it's my treat". If she makes any noise about that, you say "You can pick up the tab next time".
If she makes no move to pay, that's somewhat rude on her part. Consider it a warning!
2007-08-31 17:33:04 · answer #5 · answered by christnp 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like a date, so of course you pay.
If this is a romantic thing also bring her a flower when you pick her up. I am not saying a dozen long stem roses, but maybe one rose, a pink one or a few daisies or tulips.
2007-08-28 20:02:58 · answer #6 · answered by Cynthia H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you asked her out then definitely you should pay for her dinner.
2007-08-28 20:06:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should pay. You asked her for the date. If you go out again, she may offer to pay or she may even offer to cook dinner for you.
2007-08-28 21:11:43 · answer #8 · answered by drewxjacobs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U invited her to go out for dinner, so why not pay for her.
All gentlemen who invite a lady always pay.
Is that so difficult?
2007-08-28 20:36:05 · answer #9 · answered by sam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you invited her it would be very kind for you to pay and she might expect it since you asked her
2007-08-30 18:01:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋