My point of view is: When i care about soemone so much, he/she doesn't give a damn. But when i ignore him/her for a while , he/she cares about me so much!!
Why the adverse reaction?? Is this the normal way people should react?
Thanks for your answers.
2007-08-28 11:59:46 · 10 answers · asked by The critic flower. 3 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
People always want what they can't have. A married man is so appealing to some women then a single man. A persons character changes with commitment. A single person is very promiscuous. A married person seems mature and well rounded....more put together and disciplined. I look at my personal life....I always seem to get more play when I have someone. Especially now that I am married.
But back to your question...some times people may not realize what they have until it is gone. You care about them but it is like you do not exist. You start to ignore them then they seem interested. It is like you are 12 all over again. Why do people have to play games? I will never understand. If this is happening to you then this person does not deserve you love and affection or time. Move on!
2007-08-28 16:16:57 · answer #1 · answered by ANJANETTE C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if this is the way of the world or not. But I thought I'd share what Queen Elizabeth I of England had to say on the subject. When her marriage to the Duke of Alencon did not materialize, she wrote a poem with the following lines:
My care is like my shadow in the sun;
It follows me fleeing, flies when I pursue it ...
Just thought you should know that even the great, mighty, and powerful of this world have felt the same way as you.
2007-08-28 16:02:18 · answer #2 · answered by Civis Romanus 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste your time on him. Run, don't walk. People who lack the ability to clearly express their feelings for one another are people who will be the source of misery in your life.
Take what you are told with a grain of salt. Behaviour is a good indicator of someone's true feelings and true nature.
Someone who pulls away will always pose a problem in your life.
2007-08-28 12:47:06 · answer #3 · answered by guru 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did you not read my other reply in your other thread? In plain and lucid language, you care too much about a person worth crap, that's why. If he is a person who is a quality good person, he wouldn't manifest the signs and symptoms of disease (figuratively, but more or less accurate) and instability as he does.
YOu my friend, need to build some self-valuation and esteem to not pander , yes PANDER to such creatures.
2007-08-28 12:18:44 · answer #4 · answered by Pansy 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not everyone feels this way, one reason could be that this person is taking you for granted and feels that you always care about them, but when you start to ignore them, they care, becuase they want the care in return.
2007-08-28 12:09:23 · answer #5 · answered by ctvampsim B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its human nature. When you ignore him he thinks "Ive done something bad, I need to fix it" When you pay attention and love him, the thinks all is good, nothing to worry about. I think its normal=)
2007-08-28 12:07:43 · answer #6 · answered by Mal777 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it always seems to be that way right ?
its the same for me 'i like a chick , she likes someone else
some chick likes me Im interested in a different one
weird man weird
2007-08-28 12:29:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you love someone, let them go, and they will come back to you. That's one of the laws of the universe.
2007-08-28 12:34:41 · answer #8 · answered by birdtennis 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
remember the song "big yellow taxi" ? the lyrics goes something like this,
"don't it always seem to go, that you don't know what you get til it's gone.."
2007-08-28 12:40:44 · answer #9 · answered by miss w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hope not :)
2007-08-29 03:54:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋