i like girls, but i only feel that way for certain girls.i had an experience once, but, i dont know if that necessarily makes me one. if ne one can share the first time they knew they were gay with me, maybe it would help me.
2007-08-28 10:14:55 · 14 answers · asked by cosmogurl 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
(speakly very gently, and kindly now...)
Listen, girl...
I'm a hetero male...
And even I only feel that way for "certain" girls...
You're not supposed to want to sleep with just any girl...that's shallow love behavior...
(Rest easy...you're a lesbian...and God Bless lesbians everywhere...I relate to your "attraction" for the fairer of the sexes...)
Hope this helped...
2007-08-28 10:23:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
as most have stated before me only you can answear this question. There is nothing wrong with being straight and being attracted to women, or being lesbian,bi-sexual. What you must consider is the encounter you had once before...Is this the reason you think you might be a lesbian? most of the lesbians i know and including myself have no desire to be with a man for any reason especially sex! bi sexual is different means that they most likely prefer both sexs equally i am not totally sure about that b/c i am not bi sexual.Never the less where is your strongest attraction toward? men or women or both equally? you have a lot of questions to ask yourself...before you can even ask if you are anything but who you are like the ones i just stated...good luck hunni
2007-08-28 17:36:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's natural to only feel attracted to certain people. A straight girl likes guys, but not all guys. It's very common to have a "type". If you find that when you are alone with certain girls and you get that nervous/butterfly feeling then you probably are at least bi.
2007-08-28 17:22:01 · answer #3 · answered by lilbits 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm bisexual myself, so I'm not sure how much good I can do you. But I will say that of course you only feel that way with "certain girls." Do you think Lesbians are sufficiently promiscuous that they will sleep with anyone who wants them? Don't be silly: straights aren't like that, so why should lesbians be any different?
And no, in case you were wondering, bisexual does not mean I will sleep with anyone who wants me, either, although since I'm 60 years old, we are mostly talking theoretical anyway. It means that I can find pleasure in intimacy with either a man or a woman, and sometimes with a man AND a woman!!!
2007-08-28 17:22:43 · answer #4 · answered by auntb93 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I realized I was gay when I started REALLY liking this one chick . Her name was Claire Farzanigan and I was nuts about her. It finally dawned on me that I must be gay, even though I was still hanging posters of Matt Dillon and Scott Baio on my wall next to Duran Duran's John Taylor. I was in denial and not really interested in those guys, they were just nice to look at. Unfortunately Claire was very interested in the boys she was dating and I felt really weird liking her so much. I was 15. Now I'm 37. You'll get through it. But you know you are gay when you obsess about them and think about them all the time. Pretty good sign you are in love.
2007-08-28 17:30:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Kind of depends on how old you are. Most people have their first sexual experience with someone of the same sex. Sometimes they stick with it and sometimes they don't. My first experience was with another girl but it took me a lot of years to finally admit that I was a lesbian. Good luck. Follow your heart and you will be just fine.
2007-08-28 17:36:05 · answer #6 · answered by Auntie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, straight people are not attracted to ALL people of the opposite sex, just some.
I'd say you're probably a lesbian and it's normal. Give it time though. You sound young.
2007-08-28 17:19:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
U better wait until u had enough experiences with guys...and not only sexual experiences...wait for a nice relationship...then u think of this things
2007-08-28 17:18:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
well i've always known that am a lesbian coz i always used to fancy girls,and look at my future wiv a girl and not a man...u sound like a lesbian to me
2007-08-28 18:14:45 · answer #9 · answered by tara tara 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You alone decide what you are.
Not all straight men are attracted to ALL women...
You just might have a certain, type.
2007-08-28 17:19:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋