I'm almost 41 years old and have never kissed a women other than family members. Does this make me totally a wierdo? I'm 100% not gay and i love women.I have dated only one women when i was 21 years old and didn't do anything but watch a movie and go out to eat together.I don't live with my parents and working out at a gym is one of many interests i have.Thank you for your opinions!!
2007-08-28 10:11:53 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
You're pathetic.
2007-08-28 10:15:27 · answer #1 · answered by Black Widow Mollie 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Well, it sounds like you might be a little shy around women. I don't mean to make you embarrassed, but I assume this means you are a virgin as well. Is a relationship with a woman something you want for yourself in the future? If it is, you may want to try to expand your horizons by going to singles events sponsored by churches or social groups in your area. When you meet a woman you like, you don't have to mention your lack of experience unless you really feel it's something you want her to know. Most of it is just instinct anyway, so you don't have to worry about not knowing what to do. Best of luck!
2007-08-28 17:18:04 · answer #2 · answered by fizzygurrl1980 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont listen to the negative answers people are giving you...You just have to be more outgoing.Talk to woman and get to know them.Introduce yourself and when the time comes kiss a woman on her cheek and move in. Youll do great just be confident :)
2007-08-28 17:30:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that you're a 'weirdo' I just think that you need to step it up. It's all n the mind, if you want something, you have to really want it, and it will come to you on your own time. If you want a girlfriend, try introducing yourself to others, and it'll just happen on it's own.Good luck..
2007-08-28 17:18:26 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I had to guess, I would say you have a low level of testosterone. Some men have low levels of that hormone, and are very passive with women.
2007-08-28 17:22:38 · answer #5 · answered by mac 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah that is kinda weird...whats wrong are you scared to kiss a girl or something..you need to go meet some girls get to know them..seriously..i never french kissed a guy until i met my husband cause i was scared too..now i look back and i think to myself...wow was that that hard?
2007-08-28 17:20:12 · answer #6 · answered by ~*May May*~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
poor guy, i thought i was bad for not having kissed anyone tilli was 17 lol!!
perhaps you should just try to put yourself in positions that it will happen. but dont force it. wouldnt be that great if you did.
no youre not a weirdo... i hope. :)
2007-08-28 17:17:24 · answer #7 · answered by jessica k 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont listen to those people it is kinda sad tho u jus need to get out there and find someone you can be happy with unless ur happy by urself but do what makes u happy
2007-08-28 17:20:19 · answer #8 · answered by sam_freudiger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah that is pretty weird no affense,, most ppl start kissing when there 15 and up!
haha but no worries im sure you have your reasons. and you still have time.. so just get out there, and get your mack on:P
2007-08-28 17:16:28 · answer #9 · answered by taylor o 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are too shy and lack confident! social more and have a bit more self-confident. Don't be afraid it won't bite!
2007-08-28 17:21:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's just weird. most people have their first kiss in their teens.
2007-08-28 17:22:52 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋