My friend which is a guy that was totally in love with me is now mad a me because my sister commented 1 of his pictures and wasn't very kind about what she said!!!! Sooooo now he hates me.... what should I do????
2007-08-28 09:29:02 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Shouldn't that be your sister's fault? Tell your sister to go say sorry to him or you can apologize for her and then go home and yell at her for being disrespectful to your friend. =)
2007-08-28 09:32:32 · answer #1 · answered by craz34jason 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probaly feels your sister humiliated him in front of/or by someone that probably has influence on you as well. So,he feels bad, he doesn't hate you maybe he feels you didn't defend him.. and went along with the joke, errr, was your sister really that bad in her critisism?...Did you not say anything about it? Like for instance if some one I really liked has huge ears, and my sister would call him Dumbo, I'd tell my sister "yeah but I like those huge ears!" LOL...and make him feel better about himself knowing that i know this and I ma ok with it...Talk to him, try at least, IF you really like him. Even if you dont, try to make nice, its important...for you and for HIM. In the future tell your sister that it isnt nice to make fun of other people.. what if they did the same to her?
2007-08-28 16:37:37 · answer #2 · answered by Hermosa bori 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can apologize to him for your sisters remarks. Other than that, you are not responsible for what your sister does, and if he's mad at you because of what SHE said...well, he needs to grow up!
BTW, how did he find out what your sister said, anyway?
2007-08-28 16:34:17 · answer #3 · answered by Sally G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your sister's comment doesn't have anything to do with you, so what is his problem?? I mean, you didn't say anything bad about him. That's a problem he needs to deal with. What is getting mad at you going to solve. I say leave him alone and let him breathe, he'll come around.
2007-08-28 16:33:42 · answer #4 · answered by LabStudent0 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that your sisters opinion does not express your own. Your sorry and what your sister did was wrong and that your sorry for her. If you like hi, tell him, and if you dont say your sorry but you only like him as a friend.
2007-08-28 16:34:23 · answer #5 · answered by Laura B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just say I am really sorry i didnt mean for my sister to be like that, and I really liked the picture, and i want to be friends again, i miss you as a friend and i will try to make sure that something like that doesnt happen again, so will you plz forgive me???
2007-08-28 16:34:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him your sister does not speak for you. And that it was your mistake to let her see the picture: U did not think she would react that way. And your sorry about it.
2007-08-28 16:35:04 · answer #7 · answered by zipper 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either get ur sister to say sorry or go with it. or u should tell him t be mad at ur sister not
2007-08-28 16:53:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a goofball you're well rid of if he's silly enough to hold you accountable for something your sister said.
2007-08-28 16:32:50 · answer #9 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, tell your sister to stay out of this...Does he not understand that it's your sister's fault?
2007-08-28 16:33:57 · answer #10 · answered by Dúnadan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋