2007-08-28 06:36:58 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
don't know bout fair or unfair, things happen and you gotta roll with the punches. if nothin but good happened to everyone how could we learn anything and how boring and predictable would life be? you gotta have the good with the bad and i think that someone upstairs knows the levels of bad that everyone can handle and won't dish out too much to anyone. Someone just wants to see how we handle what is thrown our way.
2007-08-28 07:50:22 · update #1
Life is what you make of it. To say that 'life' is unfair is shouldering your actions and responsibilities off onto something else. We all have crap that we have to deal with and some take it better than others. The bottom line is that we decide what to make of ourselves.
What do you think, Buz? Is life fair?
2007-08-28 07:47:16 · answer #1 · answered by Beth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how you look at it. A friend sent me something the other day, it makes you think.
Today has been very hectic-- You know just one rude person, can mess up your day , if you let them,,I was sitting drinking a Pepsi and glanced up over my desk and saw this my sister sent me weeks ago- It brought everything back where it should have been, wanted to share with you----If you find yourself stuck in traffic; Don't despair. There are people in
this world for whom driving is an unheard of privilege.
Should you have a bad day at work; Think of the man who has been out of work for years.
Should you despair over a relationship gone bad; Think of the person who has never known what it's like to love and be loved in return.
Should you grieve the passing of another weekend; Think of the woman in dire straits, working twelve hours a day, seven days a week to feed her children.
Should your car break down, leaving you miles away from assistance; Think of the paraplegic who would love the opportunity to take that walk.
Should you notice a new gray hair in the mirror; Think of the cancer patient in chemo who wishes she had hair to examine.
Should you find yourself at a loss and pondering what is life all about, asking what is my purpose? Be thankful. There are those who didn't live long enough to get the opportunity.
Should you find yourself the victim of other people's bitterness,
ignorance, smallness or insecurities; Remember, things could be worse. You could be one of them.
Should you decide to send this to a friend; Thank you, you may have touched their life in ways you will never know! Hugs
2007-08-28 13:45:07 · answer #2 · answered by Michael N 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know about fair. I guess when things are going good, we probably tend to think that life isn't so bad, but when they aren't good, we can be bitter. I guess by definition, it is not really fair...otherwise we would all have equal pain and pleasure. I do believe though that Someone is watching out for us, and only deals us as much as we can handle.
2007-08-28 17:27:34 · answer #3 · answered by CuitePie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is both fair and unfair. When its fair for someone, it may be unfair to someonelse.
2007-08-28 13:42:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think life is what you make of it, and if you work hard and live right and do good things then life will treat you right, the rewards might not always be instant but they will happen one time or another!!!!
2007-08-28 13:46:53 · answer #5 · answered by Bambam 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its fair - what's not fair is our inability to calculate how sever the consequences to our actions are going to be
2007-08-28 13:54:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be worse. Check out Job in the Bible!
2007-08-28 14:45:52 · answer #7 · answered by jasmin2236 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how you look at it. Yes and No. I am sorry, I am no help at all.
2007-08-28 13:44:12 · answer #8 · answered by Mimi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is what you make it
2007-08-28 13:44:56 · answer #9 · answered by Ron B. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't
2007-08-28 13:41:37 · answer #10 · answered by Nico 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋