Which do you think brings more trouble or alot of work to their parents more,Children or when they are adults?
Im actually having second thoughts that adults that are single ofcourse who live with their parents give more work and thinking to their parents,i see alot of amount of parents are very worried of their children when they are old as in adults more when they were young!!
2007-08-28 05:49:20 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Travel ➔ Africa & Middle East ➔ Lebanon
I think, as a parent, we worry about our kids whether they are children or adults...maybe more when they are all grown up because when they are children you can watch them and keep an eye on them, but when they grow up, they leave the house, drive, go out on dates, go to work....etc...so we worry more then
2007-08-28 06:39:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
As a parent of adult children , I would just say that on the one hand it is rewarding to see them making decisions , living their lives .....on the other hand , you never stop being a parent & when you see them taking a different path to the one you would have chosen , it's hard to stay quiet & not interfere.
However , there comes a time when a parent HAS to step back , bless them & be prepared to pick up the pieces IF things go off the rails .
In our case, our kids have had no major catastrophies & we thank God for that !
2007-08-28 10:08:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you. Older, single (or married!) people living at home cause more worry to their parents than babies and toddlers. Babies are supposed to be helpless and need direction and care and women have them when they are young and energetic, wereas adults should be out on their own, making a life for themselves, supporting themselves and having a family of their own if they so choose. The ones that stay at home to remain a burden on their parents are, well not a disgrace, but close!
The only good I see of and adult living at home is if they are taking care of the parent(s) financially or phyically.
2007-08-28 05:55:52 · answer #3 · answered by Castlebeach 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah right
adults face way more complicated problems in their lives where they turn to their parents for help
so parents become so worried about them ...like how can we help and what should we do ...
and perents also become worried about the disicions they make and the risks they take
so it's as if they got a heavier weight on their shoulders that they can't let go ...cause now they form a stronger support to their sons
if parents turn their back and say :it's your problem now,you're an adult and you can handle your own problems..it would be a great disappointment to them..
but still adults shouldn't make it hard on their parents
i mean they can't just turn to them for any silly problem
only problems of big deal, because parents have done enough raising them up and preparing them for trip of life ...
so it's true that adults bring more problems and work to their parents
2007-08-28 07:45:09 · answer #4 · answered by HG 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
During childhood parent gets troubled by their children rather than adulthood, because when children become adult they bother themselves more and start ignoring parents, but they are equally responsible for misdeed if any, Parents have to compromise with them.
2007-08-29 04:04:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friend, she is a teenager not a CHILD. the word child represents a state of human in which he is really immature by thinking and by body too. Chile stage is only up to puberty. After puberty, it's a teenage state. You should better call her a "teen" she wont be angry this time.
2016-05-20 01:13:39 · answer #6 · answered by latrice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol@reiko, you gypo boys are uncontrolable, we have no girls birasm el gawaz hina.
Unless of course you can impress us with a fat bank account.
I think it's 2 different kind of worries, but I think that when they are younger they are with you and the worry is shorter lived.
When they become independent and you are just sitting there worrying about what they do and where they are, it is much more consuming.
2007-08-28 10:53:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
that's because parents always care and worry about their kids even if they become adults.
2007-08-28 20:17:19 · answer #8 · answered by Kalooka 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r right i m also agree with u adults do more prob then children....u can handle many children then 1 adult.....it's so hard work to control on adult cuz they know more then children & their knowledge create more prob to their parents..........
2007-08-28 06:24:23 · answer #9 · answered by love 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well, from my point of view, it depends on the person, if you show that you can handle responsibility, they wont be that afraid that something might happen, but it's just parental instincts to fear for their child and always want to help them and stay with them, no matter what!!
2007-08-28 17:55:56 · answer #10 · answered by Ghanouge 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋