how would u react to unwanted people trying to damage a relation or interfere and hurt your loved ones
2007-08-28 02:16:06 · 20 answers · asked by reifguy 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
If a relation is strong , cannot be damaged by third parties.
People who interfere meaning bad, should be faced mainly be your loved one who, as responsible woman will show them that they are not welcomed. I believe that women nowadays are perfectly capable and efficient in protecting themselves, their loved ones and their relations.
You should take action only if you hear her scream "waaahhhh!!! ououououou!!!! help somebody!". Then, it is your time to go there and smash his face!. But only then. When your loved one asks you to.!
2007-08-28 03:48:02 · answer #1 · answered by Alice in Wonderbra 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hope that the person who is being hurt has enough nuts to make that person back off. Its really not anyone's job to protecting someone in a situation like this, except that individual. We tend to want to shield those who don't have those qualities of assertiveness, etc. Give that person some advice on how to handle the situation; they'll appreciate you in the end since you didn't interfere.
2007-08-28 09:24:39 · answer #2 · answered by anaise 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would confirm my loved one behavior too. If he loks fine with this 'invader' itmeans, something wrong also with my loved one. If he looks not fine, or ignored, then i can make some strategy to give the invader some necessary lesson to see that she was in a wrong direction or useless at all.
More or less actually it is not about the invader if then suddenly the love is invaded. But more likely about me and my loved ones.
But if somebody try to hurt my loved ones, i got to see what he didi beforehand, or just simply it's a pure accident.
But if it is a sudden or emergency, certainly i will be by his side!
2007-08-28 09:24:15 · answer #3 · answered by tresyabedkowska 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Body get used to it. What you have to do is grow up and deal with it as an adult. Every day someone whistles to my wife or makes a comment even when I am with her. The way we deal with it is looking at it in a positive way, she is going to get old one day and memories of those whistlers or comments will bring a smile to her face. We are so sure of our relationship that it does not bother either one of us. At the beginning we would talk about it and of course she felt embarrassed and I felt jealous but like I said as you grow up you begin to see it positively and not as a treat. I am not saying is right to make comment but what am I going to do fight every guy that is telling me that my wife is hot. If they would approach her that's a different story, but for the most part she can take care of herself.
2007-08-28 09:27:13 · answer #4 · answered by wiseornotyoudecide 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eh, I'm in that situation right now. And frankly, I don't really know what to do.
If it was someone "unwanted" though, I'd probably kick some a*ss.
2007-08-28 09:22:17 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally,i would react but before i have to see if it concerns a serious behaviour., and according to this, i would choose my behaviour.A serious troll can be dangerous, the others can be ignored, one day they ll stop...
I hate the obsessed...They really make me sick...In this case...weapons=reaction otherwise, they ll get always the pleasure to harm..
Unless they are stupid...In this case, enjoy it by eliminating them...They can not be better than you
2007-08-28 09:20:16 · answer #6 · answered by Leonarda 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take 'em out. That's the only way. You find an abandoned basement, get a cinder block and a sledge hammer... I am just kidding. Or am I?
2007-08-28 09:20:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Honestly? It depends on the situation and if I trust the one I love. First I'd talk to her, and let her know that someone is bothering me, by interfering with her. Then she should realize it and avoid him/her/whoever. If that fails...WHOOP HIS AS$!
2007-08-28 09:22:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Punching people in the face always works pretty well, that's my theory. I would warn her, and if she persisted, I'd punch her...Violent? Sure. Successful? Absolutely!
2007-08-28 09:20:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would share the burden as much as possible in terms of standing with them, and trying to problem solve. without making their problem, my problem.
2007-08-28 09:21:57 · answer #10 · answered by nutsfornouveau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋