2007-08-28 02:15:48 · 9 answers · asked by kimberly k 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Yes Physically, but the total attraction comes in when its both mental and physical....attraction.
2007-08-28 02:23:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think my husband is super sexy, but i also worked with a guy who all of us thought was smoking hot. i never ever debated cheating or fantasized about him, but he was nice to look at during the workday. i think we all still find people attractive even though we are married. that is natural. the problem only occurs when we act on those feelings. i think people are under the flawed idea that once they are married, their libido and attraction to others will automatically go away. that is why people debate leaving their spouse when they have an innocent crush. they think the mere existence of the crush means their spouse isn't really "the one". if their spouse was "the one" then they wouldnt't even look at other people. dumb, dumb, dumb thinking.
2007-08-28 09:24:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not me. I sometimes see him and don't recognize him for a nanosecond...and my instinct says, "Hot d@mn!" Once I do recognize him, I'm giddy that I get to go home with him every night.
I see people who are good-looking by media standards, but I view them clinically like I would a piece of art. All the people I find hot reflect attributes I already see in my spouse, so I feel pretty lucky. He can be brushing his teeth and I get flustered and breathless.
2007-08-28 09:26:31 · answer #3 · answered by Buttercup 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, and even if there was someone more attractive, its not just the looks that make your partner attrractive to the eye its the quality they possess that becomes part of their outward features , thats what makes my husband irresistable! ;)
2007-08-28 09:22:52 · answer #4 · answered by Jia K 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course, just because you're married, it doesnt make you blind. My husband and I often point out attractive people to each other, it doesnt hurt to look!
2007-08-28 09:22:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absoutely, and my husband finds others more attractive than me. No big deal. Good luck. 2D
2007-08-28 09:39:15 · answer #6 · answered by 2D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All the time...but so what...that's looks...she loves me in spite of myself! So she wins!
2007-08-28 10:16:00 · answer #7 · answered by Lil_bit_witty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, all the time.
2007-08-28 09:20:46 · answer #8 · answered by Pirate AM™ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!
2007-08-28 09:21:19 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋