my mom thinks im gay...s hes right but what do i do do i come out to her??? HELP
2007-08-28 01:10:52 · 19 answers · asked by Brian L 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
When YOU are ready, then go ahead and talk to your Mom. But do it on YOUR time schedule and for YOUR reasons.
2007-08-28 01:14:09 · answer #1 · answered by kja63 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No matter what, you have to tell your mom. It's only fair, and the right thing to do. No matter how much she suspects it, your mother, or any mother for that matter won't be 100% sure of a gay son or lesbian daughter until you come out of the closet. Even if it takes you six months, you have to tell her. Better late than never, I always say. Good luck, and hope I helped!♥
2016-05-19 23:40:17 · answer #2 · answered by inger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mothers always know, so don't try to hide it. Don't be scared, being gay is nothing to be ashamed of.
If you're not ready and she asks, just be honest and answer the truth. Assure her that you're a good person, and that's the only thing that really matters. If she doesn't ask, then don't tell her.
But if you feel like you want to share the fact with her, then tell her, she'll always love you no matter what. :)
Good luck!
2007-08-28 01:35:58 · answer #3 · answered by Klyth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it will make coming out a lot easier for you. Only do it if you she's going to support you... some parents kick their kids out when they tell the they are gay. Bit if she knows, and she isn't saying anything, she's most likely respecting your privacy. Come out when you're ready. Good luck =]
2007-08-28 01:16:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The choice is up to you. Honestly you should just tell her, because she is a mother, that means she will love you unconditionally. No matter what you do your mother will always love you, so you can definitely trust her to tell her.
Besides, its not worth the stress or anxiety to try and hide it from her, but you shouldn't tell her until you are ready.
2007-08-28 01:15:23 · answer #5 · answered by Jack C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
being gay is a choice please go and walk into your local church and talk to them before doing anything that you will feel bad about.
telling people that you are gay and claiming the label for yourself will put you into a corner that it will be difficult to back out of.
You are not gay just confused
2007-08-28 01:23:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
of course you should the family if you have any might not like it but who cares your mom vote is important no matter what. So yes its ok just tell her and she will cry and then forget about it.
2007-08-28 01:57:52 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK look I'm a mom, and we know things about our kids, she all ready knows and she still is gonna love you.Just tell her no need for graphic detail of course.Breath OK it ll be OK, there ya go.you will be OK good luck to you.
2007-08-28 01:16:18 · answer #8 · answered by anonomous 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Be happy mom is open enough to talk about it... a lot of people don't get that lucky... uh yeah, let mom in on your "secret"
2007-08-28 01:24:00 · answer #9 · answered by worthington w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I took her to see Diana Ross in concert.
She figured out a couple days later.
2007-08-28 01:15:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋