In between the gender controversy discussions, do you stop to think?

Question

That at the end:

1- Life is too short
2-We are just a little particle of sand in the whole Universe?
3- Why should we be fighting, especially in this category, as tomorrow perhaps we will not be in this earth?
4- Again life is too short, we should smile more often?

Question inspired by TERA thanks.

Then what are you doing here Cassius?

Bad answer (lol)

Desactivated, you trolls are obsessed with this category. I post here during breaks, not the whole day, as you guys have millions of accounts, I just have one...so your answer makes no sense. bad answer too (lol)

No stars for Cassius or Desactivated guy (lol)

Exactly Monkey group hug.
I am a horse an it is anatomically impossible for me to hug anyone, but I can wear my smile.

Answer 1

Quite.
A smile costs nothing and goes a long way.
We know that there are really good people on this site both male and female.
We recognise that we do not always agree with each other but that is healthy.
We need to remind ourselves that we should not take comments on here too seriously as they are Merely people's perceptions and thankfully we reside in a community where we all of us have freedom of speech.
Tonight at 10.30pm UK time I received a text from one of my closest friends to say that his mother had unexpectedly died.
So guys that puts all our rantings, our complaining into perspective doesn't it.

Answer 2

You can say it again. We need some positive outlook on whatever we do.. Life is indeed too short to waste it to those individuals who doesn't have a life and too grouchy.

Bravo for being sensitive to other's viewpoints but darling as soon as a detractor speaks especially the trolls.. consider it just a piece of junks that are ready to be ditch into a smelly bin. lol

To those who are victims of trolls and clones attack:
Let's just try not to waste time deconstructing petty things those trolls say. They are just proving it that they don't have a life and too ridiculous. It's important that certain people respect you, but you won't let a few snipes from the rest of the world affect you.

Feminists got a good taste and loves to enjoy good life so let's just continue to smile and enjoy life. Cheers! Mmmwah! <*-*>

Answer 3

Its an excellent way to check yourself if you get too heated with a discussion or caught up in anger. How important would this be if it were all over tomorrow? Is this how I want to spend my remaining time on earth...

True feminist issues, where women are persecuted and held back solely for their gender, is wrong. And I commend people who dedicate time and energy to those causes. But I'm afraid I have little to no time or sympathy for women (and men) who spend their precious time fighting over who is bigger or faster or stronger or smarter...and the list goes on. It is not a competition...there is no winner or loser at the end of the day. We all benefit when someone achieves and accomplishes great things, and I could care less whether it was a woman or man who furthered mankind.

Answer 4

I'm bored out of my skull with 'gender conroversy' in this department so avoid the pseudo-questions. I answer the more interesting women's questions though. Most of my time, I read, and I write to other people on subjects that are not patriarchal, and I join in discussions on a mixture of subjects. This gives plenty of room for comparison with the small world of the trolls - who still haven't given as much thought as they should to hormones in the drinking water. The feminization of males has already been recorded - man-boobs for one and shrivelling of the 'Y' chromosome. It doesn't bother me, but is the fiddling-while-Rome-burns attitude of these young males proof they are in denial? Why are they not campaigning to rescue the manhood of their future sons? Something useful for a change?

Answer 5

Yeah. The stuff that happens in Gws is just idle net chatter and to be taken with a grain of salt. Really, none of us really know for sure who each other are and we all have our own lives. If there's too much bs going on, I just switch off and go & do my own thing, no need to bother with people whose joy in life is to try and get a rise out of other people.
That said, the genuine people here I value.
Life is too short to worry. :)

Answer 6

Male and female are simply convenient labels to describe genital anatomy, along with others for the rarer physical occurences. Applying these terms to behavior is incorrect. There is no appropriate "male" or "female" way to act or behave. Society simply trains us to think what everyone else thinks, like the sheeple we are. Different societies have different standards for men and women. Thank goodness, some cultures are beginning to recognize that gender is not a 100% definitive thing - there are shades of gray in everyone!

Simply put, we are all different and we are all human. That is all and that is enough. Live let live. No more need be said.

Answer 7

I can definitely see your point. And, by the way, I think the "gender controversy" is nonsense. Not all women are the same and not all men are the same and no group or individual can speak for an entire gender. Look at each person separately then decide what you feel about THAT person.

Answer 8

"We succeeded in taking that picture [from deep space], and, if you look at it, you see a dot. That's here. That's home. That's us. On it everyone you know, everyone you love, everyone you've ever heard of, every human being who ever was, lived out their lives. The aggregate of all our joys and sufferings, thousands of confident religions, ideologies and economic doctrines. Every hunter and forager, every hero and coward, every creator and destroyer of civilizations, every king and peasant, every young couple in love, every hopeful child, every mother and father, every inventor and explorer, every teacher of morals, every corrupt politician, every superstar, every supreme leader, every saint and sinner in the history of our species, lived there - on a mote of dust suspended in a sunbeam.
The Earth is a very small stage in a vast cosmic arena. Think of the rivers of blood spilled by all those generals and emperors so that in glory and triumph they could become the momentary masters of a fraction of a dot. Think of the endless cruelties visited by the inhabitants of one corner of the dot on scarcely distinguishable inhabitants of some other corner of the dot. How frequent their misunderstandings, how eager they are to kill one another, how fervent their hatreds. Our posturings, our imagined self-importance, the delusion that we have some privileged position in the universe, are challenged by this point of pale light.

Our planet is a lonely speck in the great enveloping cosmic dark. In our obscurity -- in all this vastness -- there is no hint that help will come from elsewhere to save us from ourselves. It is up to us. It's been said that astronomy is a humbling, and I might add, a character-building experience. To my mind, there is perhaps no better demonstration of the folly of human conceits than this distant image of our tiny world. To me, it underscores our responsibility to deal more kindly and compassionately with one another and to preserve and cherish this pale blue dot, the only home we've ever known."

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pale_Blue_Dot

Answer 9

life is too short to have any time taken away in petty crabby behavior. We have more in common than in difference and we should focus on our commonality as firmly binding elements and we can disagree without being disagreeable.

Answer 10

...and as small as we are in comparison to the vastness of this cosmos, we are not insignificant; but an integral part of something much bigger....

...scientists may say it's gravity that holds everything together...

...I think it's love.