Any word of "symparastasi" from the friends of our section is welcome...?

Question

Hi there, I know I am the one to say that this site is not for personal messages etc., but I am kind of sad with my health problem and any good word may help. I am still in waiting mode to see if it will go better or worse, and I am not feeling so good...

Thank you all, this response from so many people is touching. My problem is an ectopic pregnancy for those who don't know, basically it's a time bomb inside of me, and it has been at very low values for some time, so the doctors (yes, I've had second opinions) don't put me into treatment or surgery yet because there is a chance I will get well by myself. But I have tests every other day and it stays the same. And of course, it just might not be an ectopic pregnancy but a miscarriage, which left some tissue behind, but they can't establish any of that for sure because everything is so small and they would need to do the surgery to find out. So they experiment on me, at my full consent and understanding of course, because I don't want to get any treatment with severe side effects or surgery if it is not definitely necessary. As for having fun etc., I've got plenty of work to do, so that is out of the queestion really. Plus aI don't feel too well to go out (dizzy, tired and in some pain).

Answer 1

I am very sad reading your message.
Be strong and fight!
Try to think about your best friends, lovely places you visited and want to visit, find something to be occupied all the time, avoid doing nothing or reading books with no happy end. Go window shopping, long walks, sit in the park and watch children playing, feed the birds, change your hair cut, change the color of your nail polish.....
You are welcome to come any time and visit us in Cyprus, we shall take you round the island and we shall have fun ! A lot of fun !
Head up, everything will be fine, no worry.

Answer 2

Hi. I dont know what to say, what to wish you.
I realize this is sth very very serious - i assume u hv searched the net and u hv talked to many doctors which means, u r aware of the dangers and the consequences.
In my life i had difficult moments too. I know that smt things dont go as we expect. Even in that case u hv to deal with it. On the other hand, dont lose ur faith, maybe everything will go ok. When it ends u hv to evaluate the situation and continue. it may take time, but all people are brave , it's smt deep inside us.
From the bottom of my heart i wish u the best.

Answer 3

First of all,I think it's weird that a site that is made by humans for humans isn't allowed to have personal messages....what kind of bullsh*t is that?We all participate in this community as persons,and ask questions that concern us personally,so all questions and answer are personal in my eyes....anyway...
To you my dear friend.I know it doesn't sound like much but we are here for you.Any time you feel like talking,you can always mail me.I think the same goes for all the frequent users of this section.We are here for you,if you need to blow off steam,if you need to cry,we all have two shoulders and you can always lend one.We are here,never forget that.We may be far apart when it comes to physical distance but we are right there next to you when it comes to emotional and spiritual closeness.Always think positive.Remember that doctors and medicine science have done wonders in the last few years.I'm sure everything is going to be all right,you are going to be fine and you are going to come out of this such a stronger person.My best wishes for you,let us know OK honey?
Filakia polla

Answer 4

Though chemistry between us is not at its best, I want you to know that really from the bottom of my heart I wish you to get soon over your health problems and be back in full strength with the people of the section that like to have you amongst them. And I'll be the first to rejoice.
It's not empty talk, neither words to impress you, but for some time now, that I indirectly found the hard time you have lately, you are constantly in my thoughts for probably half of the problems you have voiced during that time.
I wish I had more knowledge to substantially help you to get over them.
One word of needless advice. How confident are you with your doctor? I take it, you had a second opinion?
Again in great honesty my deepest sympathy and my prayers and thought with you. Get well soon. I don't know what else to offer but should you think I can do more, please feel free to simply ask.

Answer 5

I don't know what's wrong, but I hope you'll be fine. Don't worry so much, it will just make you feel worse. Things usually are not that bad, how it first may seem. Anyway, once I posted similar question, cause I wanted to say thank you to my contacts, and it was rapidly removed, because "it is not for personal messages", etc. I believe that people make this site, and that everybody are welcome to share gratitude or to give support, as long as you don't offense anybody.

Answer 6

Έχεις την συμπαράσταση και την αγάπη μου κι’ ας μην σε ξέρω προσωπικά, έχε πίστη στο θεό και σ’ ότι σου δίνει δύναμη, όλα θα πάνε καλά.

Answer 7

Dear, be strong. You may overcome your illness with positive thoughts. Your metabolism and physical defense mechanism tend to go down when you are emotionally stressed.

Just think this " Nothing is as bad as it seems ".

It saved me from depression due to a very serious illness..

You will be fine :) I know because I am a witch :)

Please let us hear your good news when you have them..

Love and best wishes from Turkey

Answer 8

Min anisixis ola tha pane kala kai ego ixa provlimata igias kai den pisteva pote pos tha therapofto i akoma pos tha ziso kai na me edo igiis kai orea kai sinexizo tin zoi mou kai xeris kati i zoi ine akoma pio orea apo prin giati ixa afti tin empiria kai vlepo tin zoi me alo mati...

Answer 9

I have been thinking of you, and I am hoping that soon you will be better. Thnk positive and know that others care and are praying for you.

Answer 10

Ola tha pane kala, arkei na to pistepceis ;)