I am ten years old i watch porn and i masturbate help! i want to stop?

Question

dont say "stop thinking about it " or "just stop"

Answer 1

Masturbating is not a problem, it is a natural part of self learning and self exploration that causes no harm.

The use of porn however, especially at your young age, is not only illegal but has to be strongly unadvisable. You are not yet old enough to have learned about 'real' women and 'real' relationships. What you see in porn could give you some very clouded views on what these things are all about, and make you less able to have functional relationships when you are older.

If you want to stop then I agree with the previous poster who suggested you should speak to your parents about this and see if they can't apply some internet-filtering software to block porn from your PC.

Answer 2

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Answer 3

I hate to break it to you, but as a healty male you will never stop masturbating. Unless you become paralized or castrated, you will always masturbate! As you get into your teenage years, you will masturbate even more than you do now and you will only reduce that when you get into your twenties and older. But even as an adult male (whether you are married or have a girlfriend or single) you will still masturbate on a semi-regular basis. Blame it on testosterone and male biology! When you get into about the 8th grade and beyond, every boy in your class will be masturbating at least once a day (no matter what they tell you).

The only thing you can do is to reduce the amount that you masturbate and try to curb your hornyness by engaging in other activities. Working out (running, lifting weights, swimming, etc) and doing sports (basketball, football, tennis, track, etc) are a good way to work off built up tension and tire you out. It also gets your mind off of being horny (but only for a limited amount of time). If you find yourself incredibly turned on and you just don't want to do it (for whatever reason) you can always try taking a cold shower. Believe it or not, they do actually work!

Your biggest problem is the porn! There is nothing wrong with porn in general, but when people look at porn constantly they get addicted to it and it can affect their social lives. The younger you are when you first start watching porn the more likely you are to become addicted to it. This is one of the reasons why a 10 year old watching porn isn't a good thing. What you need to do is to get accustomed to masturbating without looking at porn. The more you do that, the more you can go without porn and eventually, you won't need to look at it at all. When you get older, porn will be something that you just look at occasionally out of boredom but not because you need to.

Answer 4

Don't feel ashamed of watching porn and masturbating......it's a normal thing that all (and yes I mean all) guys do.

There is no reason to stop unless you are hurting yourself or something.....it feels good so enjoy it.

If your parents brought you up religiously and told you that it's a sin or some stupid crap like that don't believe them, it's not a sin and it's not bad to do it.

Oh and santa claus doesn't exist either....sorry I had to be the one to tell you the bad news.

Answer 5

i sort of suspect this may be a joke, but if not, here's my response. i am 18 and i used to be a bit like you, but not at such a young age. i started college and now finished after two years. i realised my problem quickly, so i started to go to the gym instead, i.e. every time i felt like i needed to masturbate i went to the gym, i still did masturbate, but i started to "ration" (for need of a better word). just do anything else that you enjoy instead, preferably something physical, as this also releases dopamine (the drug that is released during orgasm), competitive sport is a good answer.

hope this is all useful!

Answer 6

well you should take help of a psychiatrist.you could also join yoga classes.try distracting yourself with activites where you remain in company with the society.for you masturbate only when alone .just change your life style.theres nothing wrong in watching porn and masturbating it actually prevent you from having unsafe sex and contacting std or hiv.

Answer 7

Sounds like lack of parental supervision, I have a nine year old at home and I can bet ya 100% she aint watching that stuff, on a less aggresive note.....You do need to be educated about sex, so as to not go into it blindly and get yourself in a fix, such as pregnancy, or std or worse....but pornography is not realistic, and trying to be "just like them" is a foundation for trouble..Feeling poor about yourself if you don't have a certain size, or have the perfect body, or can't go for hours like they do in the movies.....They don't either, they have to do multiple sessions in order to make it look like they are. It's hollywood and fake! Talk to your parents please!

Answer 8

If you want to really stop it then take part in other activities.

Do anything which u like (except these)

Make more friends which love to play outdoor games.

and most important thing is avoid all chances which you can avail for these 2 things.


Have a nice day.

Answer 9

Alternatively, you could give up that silly idea about stopping and admit you like it and carry on. There is a lot of pleasure to be had masturbating.

Answer 10

i know this may be wrong but there are alternatives to looking at porn there is also to alternatives i at age 16 read porn wow that sounds weird but ya it is almost as enjoyable as looking at it but with less drawbacks and if you have a good imagination it is almost better i am into digimon "lemons" as they call them and sines i have been reading them i don't have to constantly look at porn...it comes from my dirty mind. not saying its better for you i have know idea but i feel less guilty reading than watching porn. my fave site it www.digiartistsdomain.com
and yes there is fan art and yes it is a form of hentai but hay porn is a disease not a habit. good luck