well any one can help me in the PE? cuming early during xxx? well i want to know if u guys experienced this too well i still a a virigin but iam afraid i would be like that as in masturba...ion i shoot early? please help me . and tell me what works and what i have 2 do
2007-08-27 22:08:07 · 4 answers · asked by AMR H 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
The first thing you have to do, is to stop worrying about it. The more nervous and anxious you are, the more likely you are to experience problems.
Try to remember that sex is a normal and naturally pleasureable function for both partners. Take your time, breathe deeply and slowly, and concentrate on giving your partner nice feelings, rather than on what you feel yourself.
This means you must spend a long time getting her ready for penetration, by hugging and kissing a lot, and by gently caressing, rubbing, and kissing her all over her body, before you start touching her most sensitive areas.
If you listen to her breathing, and watch how she responds to your touch, you can get a pretty good idea how well you are doing. When she is ready, if you have done enough, she will leave you in no doubt that she is ready for you.
The secret is to take your time, always move slowly, don't rush. You are not trying to storm a castle you are trying to be invited in.
Once inside, make your movements long and slow, letting your partner set the pace. You should concentrate all the time on how she is reacting, not what you yourself are feeling. If you can do that properly you will have no problem.
This is why, and how, making love with a partner is completely different from masturbation. In masturbation you are only concerned about what you yourself are doing and feeling. Making love, as I am sure you will find out, is a long way different.
2007-08-27 23:10:45 · answer #1 · answered by doshiealan 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The first few times you will orgasm fast whether you want to or not. A good practice is to masturbate till you are about to c u m and then stop and don't touch yourself for a minute or 2 till you calm down. then start again and get close. If you do this a couple of times you will learn to know when to slow down and last longer. Dont stress about it or that will make things worse. try a different position to as some make me last longer.
2007-08-28 05:27:03 · answer #2 · answered by darth72au 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
the first times allways ackward and fast so just enjoy it because the memory sticks with you. after that try wanking before you do the deed or if you use a condom ( and you should) try desenstizing or using 2 condoms. just be careful with the desenstizing ones (the fluid that numbs it is usually only on the inside) if you get that stuff in her she wont be happy,
2007-08-28 07:27:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn not to shoot quickly. Practice holding back while you masturbate. practice and more practice.
2007-08-28 08:46:04 · answer #4 · answered by Solo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋