Bisexuals definitely able to be in monnogamous relationship. But in such cases, e.g : if a bisexual women is with a female, will she be facing the urge of intimacy with men occassionally? And who would they handle these situations?
Since Bi-emotional and Bi-Sexual are inter-related.
Would it be difficult for bisexuals to stay faithful? To stay sexually faithful for their partners? Will they have the desire for the other sex party when they are engaged with the other?
* Disclaimer: I am a lesbian myself, I just went for a Bi-Focal Forum Talk during our pride season month, am very interested in discussing about this controversal issues. I am not here to create any displease disagreement. Interested parties feel free to comment. :)
2007-08-27 19:46:20 · 11 answers · asked by gracy k 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
don't come and shoot me as if i am against bisexuals. I am one of those gays that backup my bisexual people.
I am only interested in people's opinion from all scope of life.
I came across a few articles that said "Will Bisexuals finds difficulty in feeling belonged to the gay community and straight community" Does gay people welcome them?
To me, being gay, we are already telling others that we are diversified when come to our sexual orientation. Being bisexuals are just one of us..we celebrates sexual diversity...
I been to the forum talk, and I'm so upset to see so many asian gays & lesbians still carries a discriminating mindset about bisexuals and transgender..
Its so saddening...
2007-08-28 03:11:16 · update #1
I cant understand why you would think that a bisexual is any different than a homo or hetero sexual in monogamy matters. There are people in any of those categories that cheat, and there are people in any of those categories that will never cheat. Yes, bisexuals tend to be attracted to more people as a whole, but that doesnt mean anything about their personal monogamy issues. Plus, its just like the stereotype..."shes a lesbian she likes ALL girls" or "hes a guy he likes ALL women" that would mean bisexuals love eeeeeverybody. And they dont.
2007-08-27 19:50:55 · answer #1 · answered by wickedwings1982 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I would say that most bisexual women don't have a problem with monogamous relationships. It more depends on if the woman dates other women in general. Some bisexuals are more scared of that than others. But yes, I think theres plenty of women who are bisexual and are more than willing to be in a monogamous relationship. Good luck!
2016-05-19 23:00:02 · answer #2 · answered by cecile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do believe that bisexuals will be able to be in a monogamous relationship. Using myself as an example, I have a wonderful girlfriend, and I will stay faithful to her. And really, I'm not interested in men sexually too often anymore, though I do have the occasional fantasy. But I do give bisexuals the benefit of the doubt, though I'm sure that there may be some that may stray away from their partners because of a desire for the other gender at times.
When I do become engaged with my girl, I can tell you this now. I will not have any desires for anyone other than her.
2007-08-27 19:55:05 · answer #3 · answered by Ultraviolet 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I suppose that it depends on what makes a person happy, or what they tend to do. Some people who only act without thinking are never happy really. Not all people have their best interests in mind, it seems they cannot think that far ahead, I'm sorry to say.
THIS Bisexual hopes to have such a relationship, as of now; it's not up to me.
2007-08-27 20:24:48 · answer #4 · answered by Christian Sinner 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, the main difference between bi and straight and bi and gay, is that you have a better chance of getting a date on a Friday night(lol) But to use bisexuality as an excuse would be like me telling my wife I had the urge to be with a white girl.
2007-08-27 20:12:15 · answer #5 · answered by maitraya 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Of course it's possible for bisexuals to be in a monogamous relationship. Bisexuals are no different than "straight" people. Just stay faithful to your partner and keep yourself in line. Straight people have it hard enough as is (look at Anna Nicole's Smith long range of boyfriends, and she's straight as can be).
2007-08-27 19:52:25 · answer #6 · answered by Gen 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i'm bi. so i can answer this with experience. say i was dating a guy and started having an urge to be with a girl. not to get too graphic, but i have a hand don't i? and five fingers? same way for if i'm dating a girl and i have an urge to be with a guy.
2007-08-27 20:07:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Nope. That's just stereotyping. Just because someone's bisexual dosen't mean they won't be faithful. People these days.
2007-08-27 19:54:58 · answer #8 · answered by Soa's Fate~ 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
bisexuals i like everybody else; they have their promiscuous ones, cheaters, faithful ones, good and bad ones...you name it just like any other sexuality, we have it
2007-08-27 23:21:29 · answer #9 · answered by ♥SPARKLES♥™ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
who cares what you are the highest amount of people in therapy are the gay and lesbian folk because they are not living the life they are supposed to live you become bored with the norm so you become deviant to give your life some drama pure and simple the gay community is a mess infidelity std,s emotional basket case s something the bi community is experimenting with because they cant express normal relationships so they jump to anything they can have sex with come on lame lame lame!!!!!
2007-08-27 19:54:31 · answer #10 · answered by brain in use!!! 1 · 0⤊ 8⤋