Survey for men: do you prefer women who speak softly and lady-like, or loudly and boldly?

Answer 1

I like a woman who speaks her mind lovingly yet firmly....one who is centered in Christ and speaks with humility....men as well should do the same.

Answer 2

I would prefer softly and lady-like. Yet, how women act was very important. Acting too softly and lady-like would sounds annoying to men sometimes. I think most men care more about looks. If you look good, no matter how you act wouldn't matter. However, do remember that don't go too far to the left and too far to the right. What I mean is don't act too softly and lady-like, men would think you are too weak. If you act too loudly and boldly, men would scare of you. It's always better to be in the middle.

Answer 3

Softly and lady-like is what I prefer. A woman can speak her mind of course but I find the loudly part very annoying.

Answer 4

Softly and intelligently opinionated is best. Nobody likes a pushover either, but it's much better than being an obnoxious belligerent bit*h.
A woman who demands attention by the wisdom in her words is sublime. A woman who demands attention by the volume of her banter is cumbersome.
I love women that have something to say, but I find it distasteful for anyone, man or woman, to "boldly" wax idiotic, especially at high volumes.

Answer 5

Softly And Lady Like Is sexy

Answer 6

I per fer women who speak soft and lady like when I first meet them. Discussion thereafter should be bold, or else you are just going to end up in silence, and disinterest.
So particularly I go with bold but soft.
I don't discriminate against loud bold woman but they are hideously annoying. I want to put my finger up to a girls lips and go shhhhh, I understand, with out her yelling NO I Will not shut up!


There is a lot of other things I like about women that relate to conversation. Like openmindness, non-critical gossip, sophistication, just to name a few on my mind.

Answer 7

Just be yourself! Trying to fit a particular "mold" in the hopes of attracting that particular person may only cause problems... in the end, your true nature will come through. If it is not what the other person likes in a person, then it will only be a waste of time in your life and life's too short to waste it on someone that doesn't accept you for who you are. So, don't worry about it... the one's that don't care for the way to talk and/or act aren't worth your time.

Answer 8

I like a woman to speak softly but bluntly.

Answer 9

i prefer women that will speak their mind.

but in general i dislike loud people. i cannot stand people that will walk into a room and yell to their friends acrost the room. or carry on a conversation so loud that i cannot hear someone right beside me. i find this to be simply rude.

oh, and if you yell up the staird for your kids, and then get mad when they yell back from their room.and reply with something like, "you dont yell acrost this house at me when i call you you come to me.." then you need slapped. if it is ok for you to yell acrost the house to communicate with them. then it is ok for them to communicate back in the same manner. so do not teach them that this is an acceptable way of communication in the first place.

Answer 10

Soft and lady-like. I absolutely can't stand anyone, male or female, that talks loudly. There is an old saying that says those that know the least know it the loudest.

Answer 11

Softly and lady-like for sure. I detest loud-spoken, boisterous noisy women, and their attitudes usually coincide with this behavior.

Rosie O'donnell would be a prime example of someone who's loud and obnoxious, even though it's rare that women would be THAT bad.