Anybody else feel this way?
I have lost weight but I know I am no where near where I should be. When my friends *STILL* get the guys it makes me feel like
my efforts aren't good enough. And it will be a long time untill I can get the last 50 pounds off to be treated equal in the dating world.
2007-08-27 17:27:42 · 5 answers · asked by Okay Hero 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
The guys just want to be seen with a thinner chick because they are afraid other guys will laugh at them. A man will go for fat or thin when it comes to “bootycall”, so long as his peers are not around. Maybe your sights are set too high? Are you seeking attention from the slim, athletic men that have something to prove to their peers, or for the average joe that has nothing to prove?
Will you be treated differently when you loose 50 lbs? It is likely that you will, but don’t expect your whole life to change.
2007-08-29 06:19:10 · answer #1 · answered by Your Brother 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its nothing to do with the slimmer girls is it? Stop looking for excuses. Your brain will be just the same when you are 50 pounds lighter. Its the interesting girls that get the interesting guys and vice versa.
You get what you give off, 50 pounds you can get off in two months if you really want and you know it. You eat too much of the wrong stuff because its an excuse and comfort. Get your mind right on diet and exercise. Start reading and creating so that you are interesting. Go and have a look at my fitn fat site on www.thebaldchemist.com Good luck
2007-08-28 07:08:28 · answer #2 · answered by thebaldchemist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to feel the same way as well....Ive still got about 30 more pounds to go to lose, here's the thing...I started to change the way I think about myself...I feel comfortable with my body now...Im happy with the way I feel. I went from 260 to 150, I feel great. If you start to change the way you feel about yourself and become more confident about the weight you lost, people will notice that you feel good about yourself and you dont care what others think, life is to short to care what others think,,,,Be postive about yourself and hold your head up....I also started hanging out with people that I knew really well...that always compliment me...no matter what I look like. My friends can tell a difference in my attitude.
2007-08-29 19:44:11 · answer #3 · answered by Dani021 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel the same way at times. But I try not to let it bother me. Usually the guys want the skinny girls based on their looks and alot of times its just for a booty call. I think for us heavier women when a guy hits on us sometimes its for a booty call but I think we also have a bit of a advantage because its not all about our looks it might be about our personality and them wanting to get to know us. In the dating world it sucks. But we usually meet a decent guy before our friends do. At least that's how its been with my experience.
2007-08-28 00:47:06 · answer #4 · answered by chelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
99.9% of all guys love bigger women its only socially acceptable to be with a skinner woman for appearance reasons. Its not right but its true. Dont change yourself for the wrong reasons
2007-08-28 00:51:31 · answer #5 · answered by tessa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋