Are serial cheaters even capable of love? What makes hem the way they are?
2007-08-27 16:45:08 · 36 answers · asked by J-doll 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yuo know what I read a story about a guy who's a serial cheater. he even have had 5 girls in a relationship. he haven't change for years and kept on hurting girls, EVEN the one he really LOVE. it was then until he find his match, a play girl which he seriously loved and for the first time tasted his own medicine. now they are wife and husband in a happy family.
if you are experiencing having a serial cheater bf, then have him tastes his own medicine, do it too but be careful. make him realize that he's not the only guy on earth and you are different from his every little girls.
2007-08-27 16:51:20 · answer #1 · answered by Pringles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U mentioned this word "SERIAL CHEATER",,,it is enough to tell u this person will not change. If he/she does then only a miracle or something drastic that happened to this person will do the job.
Somehow "serial" anything is what tells us they are repeated offenders. There is something in this person that needs HELP BADLY. Even from a child U can detect how they lie & by the time they reach teenage years U will still find this teen telling lies. So if U notice this from an adult it is best U walk away from this person sooner than U can before U get too involved & U will keep suffering & u need not in any relationship so only through your own smartness U get off this person.
Try to tell them how much help they need to overcome this bad habitual "SERIAL HABIT" BY ADVISING THEM TO SEEK PROFESSIONAL HELP.
Remember U cannot do much for these people so best for U to leave them soon as U detect this about them.
2007-08-27 17:00:29 · answer #2 · answered by basset hound 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've known people that were terrible to others. Then they met the one person that made them truely change. I usually stand by the once a cheater, always a cheater though.
Serial cheaters as you call them, probably did love at one time. Maybe there was one person they opened up to but they got hurt very badly and vowed never to let it happen to them again. It is so possible to disconnect from feelings. I'm no expert but I think it's because of the fear of rejection and lack of commitment. If they are the ones hurting , they won't get hurt. They never let themselves really feel - they're just going through the motions. Sadly some of these things people learned from their environment growing up. Maybe the dad was disrespectful to the mother, or the other way around.
2007-08-27 16:56:59 · answer #3 · answered by tkreitz77 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
they are capable of making love by not the love part. serial cheater will never settle down because all they are thinking of when they are with you is, if they can get someone else better than you. they think of the next one. the next F&%$. thats all thats in thier mind. a serial cheater will never change, yes maybe for a week or a month but thats it. cheat, cheat, cheat!!!! sorry, theres nothing or no one that can change them. good luck!
2007-08-27 16:57:12 · answer #4 · answered by Christina 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
One can not judge every serial cheater the same. Every man is unique and has had different experiences in life and has a totally different genetic makeup to the next person. To say that "every serial cheater'' is like saying "every man" or "every woman". What it comes down to the person having only a monogamous relationship depends on the persons heart and its motives and desires.
2007-08-27 17:01:12 · answer #5 · answered by n_az 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are seeking gratification and worthiness from other people instead of looking within themselves. They need to see that they are desireable, wanted, sexy, funny, etc.. through others' eyes and know that when it comes down to it in relationships that they are seen for who they really are..
They enjoy the initial "rush" of a relationship, but don't have the fortitude to stick through the dull and trying moments that come in every relationship at some point..
they lack committment and self control.
No, if they are serial cheaters, there is no changing unless they recieve serious counseling / therapy.
2007-08-27 16:49:20 · answer #6 · answered by Wildflower 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO NO NO never a dog is a dog no matter how hard you try.
I was in a relationship for 6 years he dumped me 7 weeks ago for his co-worker. in 2002 he had an affair with one of his co-workers not counting all the other I've chosen not to acknowledge. SO HURT and hopefully you see a pattern ? This bast... needs attention 24/7 co-workers give him that. I get better every day now a big problem is gone.
LISTEN GIRLFRIEND do not get involved or run as fast as you can to shake off this nuisance . You can't make a boyfriend out of a HO HO. Not capable of love, basic animal instinct heartless SOB.
2007-08-27 16:53:23 · answer #7 · answered by maria s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A serial cheater wont stop cheating, just get better at covering it up. I know because I only date girls with boyfriends. A cereal cheater cheats on you with breakfast food and thats way more disturbing!
2007-08-27 16:47:49 · answer #8 · answered by coolcatjazzman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Can they change? Nope. Google Anti Social Behavior Disorder.... one of those sites has the list of what makes someone this way. serial cheaters are selfishness personified.... it is as if you were asking a leopard to change his spots.... ain't gonna happen. Why? Are you married to one? Sorry for you if you are, hon... what an awful life....
2007-08-27 17:35:10 · answer #9 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL, I've never heard anyone use the term "serial cheater". But I guess it fits some guys.
2007-08-27 16:48:19 · answer #10 · answered by Rocketmaniac 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋