what can I do??? Its not like I just have a big nose or I'm just fat or some fixable issue- I'm just not attractive. But, I want to be. What are some things that make people more attractive?
2007-08-27 16:38:53 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
get some confidence, and im sooo sorry, but I just have to say this, HAHA, uve been hit with the ugly stick too many times!!! Sorry!! Really, I am sorry!!
2007-08-27 16:52:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Amy, I feel for you. While I wouldn't say 'ugly', I am certainly far from conventionally attractive. Although I have always had an OK figure, I have never been a head turner. I realized this in my teens, so instead of despairing that I would never be beautiful, or even pretty, really, I decided to develop my other assets. I am smart, and I have a good sense of humor. I feel good about myself because I am an excellent conversationalist; I can make anyone feel comfortable and relaxed. I can draw people out, and can converse on many topics. I make people laugh, and they remember me. Not because of how I look, but because of who I AM.
Before I met my husband, I had several serious relationships, and when I wasn't involved, never lacked for a date when I wanted one. That's because I never mourned what I lacked, but celebrated what I do have. Develop your interests and talents. This will make you genuinely interesting for who you are, not for the superficiality of your appearance. Most important, developing your mind and talents will enrich your life and make you happier with who you are. Never view your appearance as a handicap to a rich social life, or an even richer inner life.
I'm a smart, well read, super happy person, because I focused on the positives in my life. Had I been better looking, I might not have developed my mind and social skills, and been just another bitter, aging woman with nothing to fall back on now that my looks are gone.
Live your life, learn all there is to know about what interests you. Smart, happy, interesting people are always attractive.
2007-08-28 00:19:18 · answer #2 · answered by Bartmooby 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how old are you? I really think you might be overreacting, BUT REGARDLESS.....the answer to your question really is confidence. Most guys will admit that "confidence" is the most attractive thing on a woman. A truly confident smile and a confident, easy-going attitude is what will make you more attractive. But I understand that you are having a hard time with that since you feel like you are ugly.
SOooo....just take care of yourself and keep your body fit and healthy. Not in a fat or skinny way, but just a natural healthy glow that shows people you take pride in yourself. Wear clothing in a fit and color that enhances and flatters your body type. Whitening your teeth, keeping toes polished, playing around with jewelry and makeup, these are all things that enhance a womans beauty to make her feel great.
Stop thinking about what you dont like about yourself and focus on your good points!
2007-08-28 00:11:27 · answer #3 · answered by nawailohiloi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you live your everyday life with self confidence and approach every situation positively you will make impressions on people regardless of your looks. Your personality has a lot to do with how attractive your are. I don't know if you have any problems with confidence but if you live in a more positive life style you will most likely be happier with who you are.
2007-08-27 23:51:40 · answer #4 · answered by Drummerdude 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well im sure many have told u that inner beauty counts, not the physical appearance. but well, i think a makeover will be good. as in your fashion sense/style, and importantly, make up do wonders. take a make up course or learn how to make up by browsing through make up books and magazine.
2007-08-28 00:07:32 · answer #5 · answered by julicious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being attractive? Is that important? How, in the long run???
It's what's inside that counts, not what you look like on the outside. Your character, your honesty, your ethics, your desire to always do right at all costs and eschew evil. *THAT* is what's important. And your relationship with God is the MOST important! :)
~Cindy! :)
2007-08-27 23:48:29 · answer #6 · answered by ♛ CindyBradyTooh ♛ 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Find a guy who isn't shallow ( good luck).
Who cares? We all get old and wrinkled and ugly.
Your heart, mind ,and soul is what needs to be beautiful.
2007-08-27 23:47:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, I don't want to sound like a snob but I don't want to lecture you about how your inside is beautiful and that's what really matters. But please, a picture will help. You need confidence. Don't get surgery whatever you do. There's makeup and other products that will help you achieve confidence.
PICTURE PLEASE!
2007-08-28 00:00:20 · answer #8 · answered by WishIHadLighterSkin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SLOOOOOOOWWWWW DOWWWWWN!!! Plastic surgery can fix any kind of ugly. lol. Okay. Only stupid ppl care about other people looks. I bet your beautiful! You mirror is probably just cracked or something.
2007-08-27 23:50:42 · answer #9 · answered by The BecaNATOR 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First get some self confidence and then find a gay friend to give you a makeover.
2007-08-27 23:46:17 · answer #10 · answered by Corey D. 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋