How do you get over someone you love.....when they tell you that they dont love you anymore....i feel like i'm dying i'm so hurt that i cant eat or sleep or consitrate on school or anything. please i need to get over him. i really truely love him but i feel so stupid for believe that he loved me....please help i want to die....
2007-08-27 16:19:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
i dont get how he can't love me...he told me 3 days ago that he loved me, that i'm everything he's ever wanted, that i'm his whole world.....i can't stand this pain..i love him...i thought he was the 1...
i'm a freshman and he's a junior please dont say i'm to young to love...
2007-08-27 16:32:25 · update #1
i cant forget him either so many songs remind me of him cause we always sent songs to eachother i'll be doing something that we both do or something that we talked about alot....i see him everywhere...i can't take it
2007-08-27 16:39:25 · update #2
Just know that if he doesn't love you then you won't be happy even if you got to spend the rest of your lives together. And keep believing that there are more people out there who loves you back, and eventually, there will be a perfect match for you. The person that you will spend your life with will never hurt you or make you feel uncomfortable. I hope I helped.
2007-08-27 16:27:14 · answer #1 · answered by DCD4 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok, first of all, you're not too you young to love obviously. Love hurts when it ends, and it hurts like hell.
But love is tricky. It takes a few tries to get the hang of it. Everyone I know had their hearts BROKEN at least a half dozen times before they got to be good at relationships. When I was your age I almost hanged myself over a heartbreak.
The pain will pass, learn from it all, and apply it to the next time. When THAT ends, apply the lessons again.
Try not to take any of it more seriously than you should. It really is worth it once you find the right guy and the 2 of you have learned enough to know how to make it work.
2007-08-28 10:26:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my God! I've been there, exact situation! I am soooo sorry!!! The best way I got over him was I focused on making myself happy, looking good, doing things I like, anything that makes you happy. I don't beleive you're to young to love and I HATE when people say that. I do however have to agree with one of the comments above me that says boys mature a lot slower than girls. It's been scientifically proven. I am now 19 and engaged to a great guy. Focus on yourself for a while and your school work. Hang out with friends that are single. Things like that!
2007-08-27 23:48:08 · answer #3 · answered by yungin4lyfe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love comes around at different times for everyone.
Sweetie, there is something you need to learn right here and now--You do NOT EVER need a boyfriend to make you happy. You might think you do, but I swear you don't.
If you really can't understand why he doesn't love you, I'll tell you--HE IS A JUNIOR IN HIGH SCHOOL. You may be old enough to love, but he isn't. Boys mature A LOT slower than girls. Trust me. Been there.
Yes, you are going to feel stupid. But I promise you aren't. You just made a mistake. Keep in mind that he is the really dumb one, for throwing away his relationship with the one person who truly loved him and, my guess would be, put up with his crap.
I admire you for putting up with him for this long.
Hang in there, I promise there is a guy out there with your name on him, he is just waiting to find you. Don't settle for this creep. Move on and try being single for a while. Have confidence in yourself as a single woman, and guys will notice you. I swear.
2007-08-27 23:38:10 · answer #4 · answered by Guns N Roses Gal 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I hate how people don't take freshman seriously!!!! I am a freshman also. I know EXACTLY how you feel. Trust me, this might sound weird, but if you really love him than he loves you back. He probably is the one. This is how all long term realtionships go. he probably loves you to and he is just so scared. (Yes, guys get scared too, lol!) If he is not the one than you will find the one someday and don't fret about it, and until then...you can't do anything better than to just be yourself.
2007-08-31 21:30:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww....im sooo sorry to hear that. that hasnt happened to me and i hope it never does the way you're describing it...*HUG* i dont really know how to help, but i can suggest you think about the reasons why you like this person. try to pick out the bad things about them (there has to be at least 1). then think of ur favorite celebrity that u really crush on!! (it works for me sometimes) ;-)...its not the end of the world. believe me. i hope u feel better. seriously.
good luck!
2007-08-27 23:31:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh hon, i feel your pain. i can't believe a guy would be such a messed up loser. im so sorry. i suggest praying and getting prayer from friends. another thing thats good to do is have your best friend over and just vent, and eat junk food and watch chick flicks. another thing you can do that helps is get rid of everything that reminds you of him. every email, text, gift, everything. its really hard, but in the end, you'll feel so much better.
2007-08-27 23:41:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
hey you know that happens in life, and you know what they did to feel better? they got over it, so be happy cuz your saved from having to go through divorce or getting cheated on
2007-08-27 23:25:35 · answer #8 · answered by VatsuX 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sorry girlfrienndddd, he didn't really love you he just wanted some PUUSSYYY.
2007-08-28 01:08:30 · answer #9 · answered by irtehbump 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋