what would you do in this situation?

Question

you might notice another question i asked earlier but it turned into a rucus, i dont blame them. here's the question i meant, what would you do if you got pregnant and your still in school, junior high, highschool somewhere around there and you know your parents will kill ya if they find out, the point is that these situations happens alot, im just doing it for kicks and maybe giggles but this might help those people that would find thereselves in this situations

yes, i posted it for giggles, how could you sympathize and be sad, when you can laugh at them and they'll learn something important in life! in order to learn you need to feel a little pain, no pain no gain, thats why i laugh

i'll sympathize for them if they wanted to have sex and they knew the consequences and maybe wanted to have a baby but wasnt very prepared, but not if they're like "hey boyfriend lets have some fun" then 2 weeks later she gets pregnant and cries about it, it irritates me to a point i'll laugh while they cry

well good for you guys whom ever made it successfully, but stories where a guy already has 2 children, have sex again and impregnates a girl and doesnt know what to do, or some 10 year old having sex, her older sister tells her mom and she gets mad at her older sister are really funny ones, but people who worked hard and did all that and got successfully through life, i dont laugh at that so yeah

Answer 1

well, I will use me for an example: your parents will be upset yea but eventuallythey will get over it and will love the baby then when you think they wont bethere and they will give them time during the situation but what ever you do dont hide it from them cuz it will only make it worse for you and the girl

Answer 2

Ok well, I am that situation. My mom was that situation. Let me fill you in, my mom was 14 years of age when she had her first born, my older brother. She completed high school with my father by her side every step of the way. Her first year of college, she had my second brother, and my dad was still there for her. She completed college five years later. And now she's a successful Realtor. My dad started college immediately after that. He worked his to becoming an engineer. They have 7 beautiful kids now, and a really nice house. I am 16 years old. I've been dating the same guy for 4 years, and I love him. I'm pregnant, and yes I did use protection. It's common sense that no protection is 100% effective. I told my parents, my loving parents who did a hell of a job raising all of their kids (so don't say lack of parenting). They were upset, but understanding, since they know the feeling. My boyfriend and I both have jobs. He plans to be there for me, and provide for his first child. We also plan to get married 3 years from the date of our child's birth. His family is supportive, his mom had her first at 15. I am only 15 wks. now, and I've accepted it. In fact, I couldn't be happier. It's kind of sick that you're doing this for "giggles", that's kind of like a spit in the face. Just a little. And no, you're not helping anyone out, especially not us. So you should really prioritize your life, and get it together. K Thanx <3333

Answer 3

If you take a look at the questions list, there are 15-20 questions at any one time asking the same thing. So why do you need to ask it, too? I'll run it through for you one more time.

Teen pregnancy ruins lives. Parents don't get to go to college. Grandparents end up raising babies. Girls go on welfare. Parents end up with no skills to get good jobs. Children are raised by TVs because their young moms don't know what to do with them or because their babysitters don't care.

There are 3 options here:
Plan B - a pill that is available OTC in the US for preventing the fertilized egg from implanting in the mother's uterus. It's not abortion. It's preventing conception. A child is not conceived until connected with the mother.

Abortion - You can do it, if you belief system allows it. Mine doesn't.

Adoption - When I was 30, I lost a baby 4+ months into my pregnancy. I was devastated. Then I saw little girls walking to high school in maternity clothes. They neither wanted nor could afford a baby. Would just one of them put their child in my arms? No. They'd rather raise them themselves. If you loved the child, you'd put them in the best home. And that's not yours.

How's that? A nutshell argument about what to do when you find yourself pregnant too young.

The better argument, though, I believe, is why kids aren't getting the point about safer sex practices. If they were practicing safer sex, there would be 95% fewer pregnancies. If they added another contraceptive measure, there would be virtually no teen pregnancies. We try to teach them to wait for sex until it's meaningful and with the right person. If they ignore us, they ignore us, but please, keep yourself safe and don't ruin your future with an unexpected pregnancy.

TX Mom
Not an expert
Just an opinion, a conservative opinion

Answer 4

What would I do personally I would take care of the life I created and still go to school. Teenagers think there parents aregoing top freak so bad.. Mom might cry at first and dad might get mad and say your life is over but once they see that special grandbaby they will forget. Kids dont give there parents enough credit. I am 21 and in college. I have a 6 mth old little girl and thats what exactly happened to me. Mom now adores my daughter and my dad spoils her rotten. My life has changed dramatically but its not over. far from it.

Answer 5

Don't forget a lot of kids actually think their parents will kill them but in fact they will probably be disappointed and scared. I personally told my 17 yr old that if he happened to get a girl pregnant that it was ok for him to bring her to me and I will take her to either have an abortion or just talk. I don't think that a kid should necessarily have a baby. Everyone's lives will be harder for 1 mistake. You should definately have the conversation with your partner as to what you would do if this happened before you even have sex.

Answer 6

If your parents were going to "Kill You" they wouldn't be very good parents would they. They may be unhappy about the situation but if that were to happen you'll find that most people adjust very quickly and make the best of the situation. Having a grand child is usually accepted well no matter what the circumstances.

Answer 7

Whoever is pregnent, really needs to make the decision.
Your parents will not KILL you, the worst that could EVER happen would be that the girl would get kicked out.

There are tons of government programs that would help with rent and food assistant. It wouldnt be easy but its not impossible and it is certainly an option.

If pregnancy is not what they want, and they want to abort, there are tons of planned parenthood clinics that won't notify your parents and also that charge very very minimal fees, if any.

Answer 8

You just posted this question for giggles? That's horrible! For some people teenage pregnancy becomes their whole LIVES! ...
i have A LOT to say here!

1. teenage pregnancy happens as the result of getting caught up in feelings and hormones. people forget to pop a birth control or put on a condom. it happens and it sucks, but it happens everyday. EVERYWHERE!
2. most teenagers get a part time job to help support themselves and raise money for their baby.
3. most families of pregnant teens throw a small "baby shower" just so the pregnant teen can get a crib and stuff like that, that is neccessary in raising a child!
4. basically, the child wont have much for a while because money will most likely be tight, but they get by on love and the love of family/friends.

i'd like for you to please mature a little before you post your next question saying:
what do you do if you are hooked to heroin? just for kicks, i'd like to know. . .

+ i hope you pick me as best answer, because i actually provided some real answers here!

Answer 9

have the baby
my sister was in that situation and she swore up and down that our parents were going to kill her. My mom laughed at her and said some thing along the lines as that's what you get. and my dad wanted to kill the guy (the guy was 24 and my sister was 16)

Answer 10

I was in that situation.

I moved out, I kept the baby. I worked while pregnant. I finished school. I got married to a responsible older man. (I was 19, he was 24, he owned his own business) We bought a house... life has been peachy.