i was in my pool on the lounge, sipping a soda, and my brother had his friends over and they were swimming around. one was about my age and he grabbed the lounge with one hand and squeezed one of my boobs with the other. he kept saying, "oh my gosh im soooo sorry it was an accident..." but i dint beleive him. is there anyone here who beleives him or agrees with me?
PS- he kept looking over at me before and after he did it. i had big sunglasses on, so he couldnt tell that i knew when he was staring at me.
2007-08-27 13:25:27 · 54 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
id never seen this boy in my life if youre wondering...
2007-08-27 14:37:35 · update #1
i DID react! i pushed him away and said very angrily,"you just stay away. nobody within five feet of the raft."
2007-08-27 14:39:20 · update #2
my boobs are size B.
2007-08-29 08:48:23 · update #3
he was trying to cop a feel. it was done probably on a dare
2007-08-27 13:28:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 2⤋
WHOA!!! That is not OK!! That is a very private part of your body, and he is not allowed to do that. He probably kept doing it because you didnt do anything about it (not your fault). Even if he did it once, and it was truly an accident, its NOT OK!!
If you can, tell him very sternly, that he needs to stop. If he wont, tell your mom, or an adult.
And if he STILL wont stop.........here is what you do: (I used to help teach at a Tae Kwon Do school). If he tries to touch you again, grab his hand as fast as you can. Hold onto it with one hand, and make a fist with your other. But leave the knuckle of your middle finger slightly higher than the rest. So if you look at your clenched fist, it sort of makes an upside down "V". Then strike the top of his hand with your knuckles (not his palm, the other side where the bone is). That should show him you are serious, and stop him.
BE STRONG!!! That kid has no right to do that to you!!
2007-08-27 13:35:13 · answer #2 · answered by Brenda 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He was trying to cop a feel. You must like him, cause I gotta tell ya, in my day, if I would have done that, I would have been slapped. You are not reacting like someone who is offended by the incident; and if that is the case, what does it matter? At least to anyone but your parents if you are the age I think you are.
2007-08-27 14:04:12 · answer #3 · answered by holdemfoldem911 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you. No boy "accidentally" grabs a chair and a boob at the same time...he probably grabbed the chair in one location and you in another, so he knew what he was doing, especially given that he kept apologizing. Tell him you are offended by what he did, then tell him to make like a bee and buzz off.
2007-08-27 13:29:36 · answer #4 · answered by ripsgracie 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Its not just boobs, its the whole female form. It gives me pleasure to give you pleasure. I have no interest in squeezing your boobs if you're not going to enjoy it.
2016-05-19 21:23:17 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably just saw that movie. And thought it would be funny but I doubt it was an accident. Why didn't your brother say anything to his friend. My brothers would have beat his a**.
2007-09-04 09:26:59 · answer #6 · answered by lgs121 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha well . he is a guy so he very well coulda done it on purpose but there's a slight chance that it was an accident .. that is soo funny .. my bf likes to squeeze myboobs A LOT lol .. but i cant really tell that guy really meant it or not lol but i'm sure if it was an accident he didnt really mind haha
2007-08-27 13:48:51 · answer #7 · answered by snorfgoogle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm, well if i went up to you and squeezed your boobs i wouldn't be looking back, maybe he has a crush on you, maybe it was a dare, or maybe jst had placed his hand in the wrong spot, but if he like litterally squeezed your boobs then ya, he did it on purpose, maybe he thinks your hot, but i don't know, send me a picture of yourself and i will tell you
p.s. not a pedifile, no where near that
2007-09-01 20:25:03 · answer #8 · answered by stephensk82003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This was no mistake! How do you "accidently" grab a girls private areas? This guy is a jerk, and this is also sexual harassement. I don't know your age, but talk to your parents about this, or at least a trusted adult. They can talk to this guys parents and make sure this doesn't happen again! I sure would not want him at my house again at the very least.
2007-08-27 13:33:38 · answer #9 · answered by sellersrus06 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
He did it intentionally for a cheap thrill. Next time he does it, kneee him in the groin and say "sorry, my knee slipped" as he doubles over in pain. He'll think twice before doing it again.
2007-08-29 06:03:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's impossible to "accidentally" squeeze someone's breast. Accidentally touch it, yes, squeeze? No. He disrespected you. Since you obviously didn't take care of it when it happened, there's not much to do now. If it doesn't bother you, fine. If it does, I suggest you tell him in no uncertain terms that the next time he does that, his balls may receive the same "accidental" treatment.
2007-08-27 13:31:34 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋