Love or true love... Those people who love each other, does this love disappear after marriage?
How to keep love after marriage?. Thanks.
2007-08-27 12:02:21 · 9 answers · asked by The critic flower. 3 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
It is impossible to advise on this when the couple and their histories are unknown. People jump into marriage for the wrong reasons, and the divorce rate is quite high. So, in this case, the best advice is to do all you can to be sure that these two want to be together for ever and ever, and know what they are getting into before they do it. Do you think you can stand waking up to this same person every day for the rest of your life?
2007-08-27 12:12:22 · answer #1 · answered by Hot Coco Puff 7 · 9⤊ 0⤋
True love continues after marriage, however the being in love is less likely to. To help prevent this, make time for the two of you alone. People get caught up in the kids and their jobs, etc. Make time to focus on the two of you. Have a date night. Surprise each other with a little gift once in a while. Allow each other to have a life outside of your family. Maybe she likes to go to the ballet, and he likes to go hunting. Remember what attracted you to each other in the first place...
2007-08-27 12:12:02 · answer #2 · answered by loshea65 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not only does it continue after marriage, it gets better as the years go on. How to keep love after marriage? Treat your loved one the way you did in courtship days. Do little things for each other. Don't forget to thank him/her when they do something nice for you. Tell them you love them, and show it in little ways. Do little surprising things for each other. My husband (after 56 years of marriage) still brings flowers. Sometimes a bouquet, sometimes just a blossom he's cut while he's out doing the gardening, and he'll leave it somewhere where I will find it.
2007-08-27 12:11:46 · answer #3 · answered by old lady 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the true love we experience at the beginning of a marriage is just a taste of true love. Because true love doesn't really come from a biological union. We must grow in that love we experience, towards it's real sorce. You have to let go of some of your earthly conceptions of what you think love should be. Learning instead, what true love really is. A spirit that loves everyone. But only some respond to it.
2007-08-27 12:16:36 · answer #4 · answered by THEHATEDTRUTH 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first a big 'if' - IF it's true love, then yes, it continues. the thing that might not is the romance and the passion. the love continues. anyway no one really ever said it was easy. you have to work at keeping a relationship alive. you have to always respect and care for each other, watch what you say, be honest, try to keep things entertaining, and take care of yourself too.
2007-08-27 12:11:28 · answer #5 · answered by KJC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True love doesn't begin until after the marriage. Giving of yourself, and actually believing that your spouse, and not yourself, is the most important person in your life is where love begins.
2007-08-28 01:45:19 · answer #6 · answered by Nihl_of_Brae 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it is true it continues.love at first sight is skin deep it vanishes after enjoyment.love from childhood is matured love it has its own methods of give and take and does not dis appear on marriage continues through children.true love which is based on mutual sacrifices generally lasts longer
2007-08-27 12:14:25 · answer #7 · answered by venkataramanan t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not my marriage. My wife is always nagging at me and saying she dont know why the hell she married me and blah...
blah, blah... she s always calling me a loser. Her mom is
always puting me down too. shes like " Tiffany why the hell did
you end up with this fool.... whatever happen to Joey... he was a nice guy, with a good job and lots of money." So in
my situation my marriage sucks and im stuck in it too.
I gotta go now I have to make dinner. good luck and dont
end up like me.
2007-08-27 12:09:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
.... hmmm!
i agree with "old lady"
2007-08-29 04:18:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋