How can I be more outgoing and any tips for hanging out w/ my best friends?

Question

I need advice so that when I hang out w/ them I can be just as outgoing as they are.

They're like brothers to me so I don't want to screw it up or anything.

Answer 1

I had a group of brothers and I never had to strive to be more outgoing, which I'm more then sure there not stressing on you ether. Realize it is about the group and each individaul has there own uniquiness to bring to it, so just concentrate on being you, for some of us its just hard becasue it seems ignorant or just out of charater for us, theres a reason for that, thats not who you are. Except your place in the group and bring what you can to the table, they'll respect you just the same. Besides like me you proubly have places your more outgoing, like me was thinking and talking. They might be more outgoing in action, but in word I held the tourch. So just really get more comfrontable with you and the purpose of your group. Like we went thru that phase of one-night standing. They were outgoing enough to get the party invites and I was outgoing enough to help us get the ladies. Just its a team effort so just find you place in helping out that team. Good luck! Short of that its all about confidence, so just get more confident in your own right, and you'll do just fine.