there are 4 different guys that could be the possible father of my unborn baby, im with a guy at the moment, he thinks i havent been with anyone but him , should i pretend its his baby even though it may not be?
i want a loving family for baby
2007-08-27 10:40:19 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Oh no tell the truth. It always comes out but most importantly the baby deserves to know who his/her father is. If the man you are with now will support you then you will have a loving family for baby. If he does not support you WILL find someone who will. Good luck.
2007-08-27 10:45:34 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Sodas♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't trick some poor guy into thinking he is the father if he might not be. How can you have a loving family for baby when you obviously don't have much respect for yourself. Tell your current friend. Live with the consequences, move on and take care of this baby you are going to have. Since you sleep around so much why didn't or don't you use protection?
2007-08-27 10:51:33 · answer #2 · answered by poopsie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I really hope this is not true. Damn I can not understand how grown adults get into this mess. Didi you not go to sex ed class? Or i assume you did not know what a condom is? No you should not lie because you never know in the future what might happen. What is your child got forbid has problems and may need like a blood transfusion and they heck for both of your blood and it doesn't match then what would you do then? Also your being selfish by keeping the identity of your baby father to yourself. Your child has a right to know who her father is. A a bit of advice try learning how to RESPECT yourself. Next time a box of condoms will due.
2007-08-27 10:49:20 · answer #3 · answered by Angel Eyes 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You could try but if it ever comes into question, how will you explain yourself? Is it fair to baby or "daddy"? I hope each of the four (or five) were the same race because if the sire wasn't, it'll be obvious in a year or so.
I have the best idea for a loving family for baby--give it up for adoption and let someone fill their lonely hearts with the best gift anyone can give.
2007-08-27 10:47:19 · answer #4 · answered by Jess 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"advised me that he could no longer have self assurance that i became doing this to him. That became his seed and that i stole it" A finest reaction and technique of denial. i could have asked him to describe why he thinks I "stole" some thing that he gave so willingly, with super own exhilaration, and without theory-approximately effects. i could inspire you to have some counseling impressive now. you elect help to locate many things, alongside with no rely if or no longer you want to tell him of the beginning or have the courtroom do it. different issues are: a million. you may "stay with" a boy who has a made it sparkling he has yet another woman? 2. Your toddler could have a father whether you never have touch with him returned. And why could you? he's a loser. 3. don't be so hasty to elect you do no longer desire toddler help. you have already exercised questionable judgment, so do no longer make it worse. in basic terms you will understand the respond, yet question no rely if or no longer your toddler will income maximum from an absent father or an idiotic and narcissistic one. And now you already know why it is this variety of super theory to maintain your legs at the same time till marriage. P.S. traveling rights and toddler help are no longer truthfully related. it is, one won't be able to deny visits if father isn't paying or is in the back of in help money. All he has to do is petition the courtroom for traveling rights, whether you decline help (which, in my opinion, could be a much bigger mistake than you have already got made).
2016-10-09 08:31:55 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. I think that's the worst idea I've ever heard.
Here's a 3 step program for you to follow:
1. Paternity test all of them after the baby is born.
2. Find out what a condom is. Find out what birth control is. Utilize them.
3. Quit being a whore and cheating on your boyfriend.
2007-08-27 10:46:50 · answer #6 · answered by HooliganGrrl 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
NO NO NO NO NO!!!!!
Never lie about something like that. This is WAY too serious to just arbitrarily "pick one". Becoming a parent is a LIFE changing thing! Don't lie about it. Everyone in this situation deserves the TRUTH! Especially the child!
2007-08-27 10:47:21 · answer #7 · answered by Sabrina 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. Tell everyone that is possibly involved the situation. Once the baby is born, it is time for dna testing.
2007-08-27 10:46:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
DNA in this day and age will be a problem . I hope that you get what your hoping for, but it's best to take the wait and see. And just be , the best that you can be , from here on in.
2007-08-27 10:47:06 · answer #9 · answered by fuzzykitty 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hope dis is a joke. You certainly can't be serious.
2007-08-27 10:45:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋