The judge had asked me, if I wanted to pay back the child support I owed, and me being a dumbass I said yes. But I have taken care of my daughters from the beggining and all this child support sh*t was a mistake, me and my fiancee got wrong information and we got screwed at the end.
But do you know why the judge, then asked if I wanted too pay it back or not. Is there anyway I can get out of it.
b/c originally my fiancee recieved 1590 from cash assistance, and now the state says I owe over 3G's.
What do you suggest I do?
2007-08-27 09:19:24 · 7 answers · asked by $$$MAKER 1 in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
actually the judge right out told me you dont have too, I never asked if I dont what would happen. and I said all I wanted to pay back was the money sent to us by the state and she said that I had to do something else to settle that. I was to nervouse to say I didnt want to pay it back
another thing is if my fiancee recieved 1590 how , and why is the state charging me over 3grand
2007-08-27 10:42:39 · update #1
Pay the money that you offered to pay.
2007-08-27 09:25:04 · answer #1 · answered by Glen B 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First mistake was going to court without an attorney. I have to assume you did this or there would be no "wrong information" or child support mistakes. The judge wasn't actually "asking" you if you wanted to pay the back support. He just wanted your feelings about it. Your Fiancees money has absolutely nothing to do with your support. Even if you were married to her. Be prepared to pay the back support. Try to get payments that are affordable for you. Many States will pull your drivers license (without telling you) for arrearages. Paying through the Child Support Office is the only "safe" way to pay. This assures that a record is kept and any other money given is considered a gift.
2007-08-27 09:37:03 · answer #2 · answered by sensible_man 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, they won't end the order until eventually the two considered one of you get married. Voluntary help sound sturdy, each and every physique working mutually for the income of the youngster. whether, in case you have a combat, he strikes out, and so on. He ought to end paying and you're able to have no recourse. because of the fact the county/state has considered all of this in the previous, they're being proactive to ward off later court docket battles. if your boyfriend is prepared to help his daughter, he shouldn't recoil at having this help legally documented. it is likewise to his income. in the form which you separate, if his help is legally documented, you won't be in a position to declare that he's not paying whilst he certainly is. i be responsive to this sounds dreadful, yet those issues bypass the two techniques. Deadbeat dads who do not help their babies; and scammer mothers who get carry of money and declare they don't as a manner to get the dads in difficulty. perfect for each guy or woman in contact if the money are paid throughout the time of the state device.
2016-10-03 07:50:07 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think the judge was asking if you wanted to pay it back as much as (IMO) he was probably trying to assess your intent to pay it back. You owe the money - pay up.
2007-08-27 09:26:46 · answer #4 · answered by Star 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you go back to court. If you said you are going to pay it they expect you to. He wasn't giving you an option to pay it or not. I think you had to pay it either way. Seek legal advice.
2007-08-27 09:28:08 · answer #5 · answered by bonstermonster20 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must pay it back cause everything you say in a court of law is kept as the truth you can slowly pay back the money in payments
2007-08-27 09:27:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you don't pay it. You will pay for it in the end.
2007-08-27 09:35:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋