Girls!! HELP PLZ....It would mean ALOT!!!!?

Question

To get to the point I'm Homeschooled and my parnets will NOT let me go to Public school and my Ex-Friend who's a Jerk (sorry to say but it's the truth). Ok when I was younger I did Cheerleading and Loved it! I still love it and NOTHING else. But my Ex-Friend made the Cheerleading team and I cant since I'm Homeschooled, I live in a smell town so there is nothing else to do! I only want to do Cheerleading I just LOVE it. And now I see my Ex-Friend and it hurts really bad because my Coachs used to say I was the BEST cheerleader (way better then my Ex-Friend) and now I cant and I have to see my Ex-Friend since we only live a few houses apart.

How can I deal with this??
I need advice!

NO rude answers PLZ!
Thanks in Advance!!

The reason my ex-friend is a "Jerk" is b/c she Turned on me MANY times, When ever I need to be my friend the most she was not there for me. She was NOT a good friend at all and there is so much more I could teel you but won't.

*tell* sorry for the miss spells.

Ther is NOTHING I can do around here, And every Bigger town is eather and hour or two away. We dont have any rec center. The YMCA we have is VERY,VERY small and they dont have ANY programs. So I'm stuck in the middle I cant go to Public School to do cheerleading,An there is nothing to do around here period.

Answer 1

Oh gosh.. I'm a homeschooler too, and I understand COMPLETELY. As a homeschooler, you have to go through some kind of academy or satellite school of some type to be able to say you're enrolled.. the best advice I can give you is to check with them and see if they have any kind of cheerleading or sports programs.. my school does, and some of my best friends are with a school that does, too.. if your school doesn't, look for one near your area that does.. and if that's not an option, you could get on some type of competitive cheer team that isn't associated with a school.. There's always an option. lol:]

Answer 2

This is a tough one but let me try. Ok i know nothing about cheer leading but i know where your coming from when you have a passion for something. I dont know the reason why you and your ex-friend aren't friends anymore, but maybe you could overcome that and try to make mends. Once you do, you could ask your friend to teach you some of the cheers that she learns everyday from practice so you can keep cheering. If not see if your city has a cheer squad like a gymnastics you could join. About your parents. Try to make a list of the pros and cons of homeschooling vs public school. Let them know that this is something you wish to pursue in your future. Let them know you need friends to better your social skills and being away from children your age can hurt your confidence in talking to people in the future because you'll want to keep to you self. If all else fails then try setting a meeting with the school or the counselor. There has to be another way around this and they can't home school you when you go to college so they need to let go now. The sooner the better. Hope all this helps you! good luck!

Answer 3

Talk to your parents. Tell them how important cheerleading is to you. I would also leave the things about your best friend out of the conversation. It makes you seem a little immature and you're trying to show your parents that you are mature enough to handle the problems that you're going to deal with going to public school. Also, you loved cheerleading before you knew you were better than your best friend, right?

Answer 4

If it is impossible to join cheerleading because you are homeschooled, try to find something similar that you enjoy that you are allowed to participate in. Why is she your EX friend? Is it because you just grew apart because you are homeschooled now? If so, you should try and talk to her and tell her how you are feeling. Don't just sit at home being mad- try to get out there and have fun in whatever way you are allowed to participate. Also- I think it is a possibility that if your parents talked to the school, that you may be able to join a school team if you are in that school district and home schooled. You should check it out if you love cheerleading and are really good.

Answer 5

If you are really into cheerleading, and you think its what you wanna do with the rest of the time you're in school, then tell your parents that you really love it and you're passionate about it. If they want whats best for YOU then they should understand. If they still won't let you, there are other ways to cheerlead than school.

Answer 6

There are some home-schooled kids in our city who participate in sports at the public high school. One of the best varsity soccer players is home schooled. Call the school and ask to speak with the athletics director, or a guidance counselor to find out how you can participate. I could be wrong, but I think some states even have laws the make it mandatory for public schools to let home schoolers try out for teams.

Answer 7

Console yourself with the knowledge that you were good at cheerleading even though you can't partipate now.

To the core of the problem, why has your friend become an ex-friend. Is she truly a jerk or are you just sensitive?
If you're able to reunite, you could "help" her with cheerleading practice.

Answer 8

i come from a small town.. but we still have a town rec center. why dont you look into cheerleading for your town's rec team or maybe even the city's. There are other options for cheerleaders besides highschool teams.

Answer 9

Have you ever that cheer leading could be your goal in life... because a lot of air headed girls that come from SMALL towns like you do become cheerleaders!

Answer 10

tell your parents how much you loved cheerleading and how good it'll look on a college application (when the time comes, if you stick with it).
there are cheerleading squads that aren't school-team-based so you could find one in your city to join :]