the first guy I ever had sex with....Well I kind of wonder a lot about what if I told him I still kinda would like to date him.it was only a thing then nothing.No relationship then but I kinda wouldnt mind going out with him.But from what I hear he says he didnt do anything with me.People also say he hates me but I never did anything wrong I`ve only told the truth and well for some reason makes me think maybe if I lied more he`d like me more.Advice or any coments r nice..Just tell me I am F`N NUTZ if you would like.
2007-08-27 06:45:05 · 6 answers · asked by Kat A 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
BTW it was over 15yrs ago..
2007-08-27 07:02:07 · update #1
If he is not willing to admit what he has done with you then he really is not a good person to be with. You are not nuts you are a victim of love. Move on honey, you deserve better than what this guy has to offer you.
2007-08-27 06:49:57 · answer #1 · answered by shadowsthathunt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Kat, which is my name too but its spelled CAT. There must be some sort of weird coincidence with girls who have our names and this situation because I went through this about 3 years ago. my situation's the same, instead I ended up losing my virginity to him and then we became friends with benefits for like a year and a half. only my friends knew I liked him SO MUCH, and that I felt like I was only being used but i didnt want anything to end so i kept it going. One night I finally asked him if he'd want a relationship and he was all, "You know you're one of my first friends i made here and you're my f*ck buddy! i think it would make it weird. besides i dont want a girlfriend." THEN TWO DAYS LATER I saw him with another girl, holding hands. I was so mad that she thought i was gonna beat her up and actually told me she was afraid of me. They are still together to this day. So my advice, long story short, is to just go ahead and ask. If he wants you, hell say, if he doesnt, he'll lie and then get a new girlfriend. You dont need somebody who lies that he had sex with you! You want a man to be proud of you. HE IS NOT!
2007-08-27 07:02:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like abuse then court him. Otherwise go out with a gentleman. Sounds like a real winner.
2007-08-27 06:52:26 · answer #3 · answered by CSC78 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds like a jerk,and i think you made a mistake by sleeping with him. i would forget him - and go on with my life. don't talk to him or about him. find someone worthy of your attention. if he tries to embarass you or be mean to you - tell everyone his penis is tiny. that will shut him up.
2007-08-27 06:51:14 · answer #4 · answered by ♥livingdeadgirl♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not nuts? if a guy leaves it becuse he's tired... and ashamed. SO dump it already... and move on, I f he left a reminered then Have it , and suee sue sue
2007-08-27 06:55:27 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try again nothing will belost or gained unless you try...sit donw and talk to him
2007-08-27 06:50:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋