Why do women always blame men for cheating? It's not vain but reality. Could weight gain be one cause?

Question

Is it love lost with time or weight gained with time that makes a heart grow fainter?

Answer 1

It's also said for a women as well...women do it for the emotionally lost. In either gender, it is simple; there are warning signs to heed and if you don't and you don't give your partner what they need they go else where, it's that simple.

You don't eat out if there is a full fridge.

Answer 2

Well like the other responses the person who cheats is responsible for their actions. If their spouse gaining weight was a contributing factor (i.e. no longer attractive or not wanting sex) than the "cheater" should voice those concerns before cheating and give the spouse a chance. Some women don't like to hear about their weight gain and say "they should love me no matter how much I weigh" which is true but do they want to have sex with you? Men need that and will stray.... We as women are more emotional whereas men are physical. If they met you and you were thin or average and than you gained a lot of weight your really not the person they were attracted to in the first place. I say women should take care of themselves to keep their husbands interested. A lot of women (and can be the case with men) let themselves go and then wonder why their husband is ogling other women, hanging out at strip clubs and cheating.

In some cases a man can have the most beautiful; thin woman in the world and still cheat that's just they're immature; immoral character.

Answer 3

Say what?? What are you trying to ask or answer. You are saying because someone gains some weight someone cheats>>> thats like saying if a man cant get his D I C K up the female is going to cheat on him.... love and sex are two different things all together.

Answer 4

if either a man or a woman cheats because the other one gained weight, than they're immature and childish and really just looking for a reason to f*ck around. if "relationships" are based on weight alone than I'm sorry but its really NOT a relationship at all. Vanity has nothing to do with cheating. people should have better morals and act responsibly.

Answer 5

I don't understand your question, but I'll try to answer it anyway! When someone cheats, they are responsible for their actions alone. That doesn't mean that there weren't reasons for why they chose to do what they did, but nothing justifies cheating, it only helps explain why someone might chose those actions. If I were in a relationship and added to the problems, then I would have to own up to that, but it still would not be an excuse for my man to cheat.

Answer 6

It is probably because statistics--and common sense--show that men cheat more often.

Sometimes I am certain that a woman's weight gain might lead to a man's cheating, but that usually isn't the number one cause.

Answer 7

Who knows. Men and women alike stray for all sorts of reasons. Some of their own doing. You can't say that just because your significant other gained weight that it gives reason to cheat, now can you? It goes both ways.

Answer 8

My wife has always had weight problems, and though I am a foot taller than she is and still weigh less than she does, I love her anyway---not for WHAT she is, but WHO she is. And oh, did I mention she's six and a half years older than me, and in just about every "cold" stat an inequal contribuor to the household? I love her and she loves me, and I'm not tempted to stray from her even though I get hit on by younger women with multiple her talent----because they can't compare to her loving, dedication and personality in my opinion.

Answer 9

Yeah, that's right.

The current wisdom is 1) that if a husband cheats on his wife, it's his fault and 2) if a wifes cheats on her husband, it's his fault for not meeting her "needs".

Ownership of a Y chromosome is not what it's cracked up to be.

Answer 10

adult adult males. They assume plenty. women people basically look ineffective via fact they circulate to plenty hassle to make a stable effect. yet I reckon this is barely via fact maximum of them are the two genetically programmed, or socially formed, to lack the boldness they must have. that's stupid, via fact for all their fluttering maximum women people can cope with certainty plenty extra suited while they must accomplish that than maximum adult adult males can. look at childbirth, raising young ones, and dealing a enjoyed ones and a job on an analogous time!