I got her preg...Im only 14?

Answer 1

Let me get this right you felt grown up and thought you were a man while you were having sex now that shes pregnant you are only 14 and want to be a kid again? Sorry it doesnt work that way Man up and stick your chest out!

Answer 2

You know... I have this rule of thumb that I tell everybody when I answer questions on here regarding sex....

DON'T have sex unless you're able to deal with the consequences.
If you're not able to drive and work, and have a pay cheque, why have sex? You're not able to do the right thing if you get some girl pregnant.
In order to have sex, you need to be mature...If you can't even drive you're not old enough or mature enough. You're a child still.
You need to be responsible... obviously you weren't cause you're 14 and got some girl pregnant.
You need to have money in case something happens.... you're 14, you can't legally work, how are you going to support this baby that you're going to father??

If you're having sex, you need to use protection.... If you don't want a child, or the chance of a STD use a condom!!! Make sure she's on the pill as well then you have double protection. You know the saying don't do the crime if you can't do the time... well, guess what, your crime is having sex at a young age... now you have to do the time... meaning you have a child to think about...how are you going to support the child and the girl?? What are your parents going to say when they find out?? What is the girls' parents gonna say?? Think about how your life is going to change over the next 9 months... you need to get money, you have dr's appointments to go to with this girl as you should step up and be a man... I mean, you were playing an adults game, it's time to grow up and be an adult now....

This is why young people should NOT be having sex... you end up with teen mothers and 9 our of 10 guys don't stick around to see their child and help raise it.... It's disgusting! you should only be having sex when you're old enough to accept any consequences of it.

Answer 3

Well at 14 this is rough....whether you decide or sheand a judge decides for you one things for sure you will have a child to take care of for the next 18 years-this is not an option....You should have known what having sex could cause but now you know for sure first hand..Hopefully you have learned something here and this will be the only one until you decide you are ready and want to have kids(hopefully married).You made a grown up choice and now you will have to live with the grown up consequences....

Answer 4

As there's no question posted, I'm assuming your in shock and forgot to ask one. I'm guessing you wanted to ask, what do I do?

You can't get someone pregnant, then step back and say I'm only a kid.

If you want act like your a man, then be a man.

You need to work on some sort of plan to support this child. That will involve your parents of course, as you need to finish high school at least.

In the meantime, keep the one eyed trouble maker under control.

Answer 5

well sorry to hear it, but 14 or not, teenagers need to understand sex leads to kids, your not invinceable. think you might learn to try and stay away from sex till your ready for children later on in life?

i know it sounds rather heartless, but it is the very consiquence that teenagers, well people in general are foolish about. there is a chance that her parents will help raise the baby, she will raise it (you will have to help though you are part of the problem, be part of the solution) theres abortion, adoption, find out what she will be doing, or talk about it between you about what you will do now.

it was an adult thing to do, handle it in an adult fasion. dont be unreasonable though. you are both really young and both of you have so much ahead of you to have ruined at this point in life.

if she desides to keep the baby, first stay in school, dont drop out to work full time, maybe try to get a part time job after school, that you can do as long as your in school, dont back out of being a parent now, but you also dont have to end your life. you can still go to school, just get a part time job. (she will need the financial help) aside from that there is also the farther you go in school, the better chance you have at doing well in your life, so keep the part time job, and keep going in school, maybe one day youll look at this as character building and become a better man from it.

Answer 6

Babies should not be having babies.

Try to think of your options, and if you think you could handle caring for a baby, having a job...tell your parents, find out if they'd support you at least through high school. If not, then try to think of the 'A or A' options. Adoption or Abortion.

But do what will rest easy on BOTH of your minds, not just you, and not just her. You did this together, you should make decisions together.

Answer 7

I hope she doesn't have any big brothers. When my friend got pregnant at 14, her 18 year old half-brother chased the boy down the street with Mr.Lucky (his baseball bat). Then he moved to Michigan or something. But if you can't move, its best to just pay the child-support and get a job.
Good luck!

Answer 8

thats sucks but its life, is she 14 too? the most important thing you should do is support whatever she wants to do. If she wants to have the baby than you really shouldnt run away because the baby needs a dad. Get a job... life will be different but whats meant to be is meant to be

Answer 9

Then it's time to tell an adult or adults you truly trust. Your parents, teacher, guidance counselor, principal, priest, rabbi, social worker or any responsible adult. It's out of your League to handle it on your own. You need help from people who will guide you through - help you make a responsible decision that you will have to live with. You did not listen to them before, so listen to your options right NOW. Do the best thing...Good Luck...You and her need it.

Answer 10

geezus.

Well whatever you do, don't abandon the girl now. You obviously knew what the consequences could have been, and that they would not affect you, and so you chose to ignore that.
Now you've got to accept the consequences, because even though you're not the one who's pregnant, it's your fault that this girl is pregnant.
You've got to talk to the girl, ask her what she thinks is best, and go with whatever she wants to do, even if she wants to keep the baby.
If you leave her now, you'd be a coward.

good luck.