Come on, I know you're out there. And how long did the relationship last with the mistress once you were free to be together?
(I'm nobody's mistress.....just wondering.)
2007-08-27 06:17:08 · 13 answers · asked by meagain 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My Dad did they have been married about 22 years and she is a wonderful woman. Unfortunately she was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer in Feb of this year and is not well. My father had a major stroke about 10 years ago and has been bed ridden for the last 2 years.
Is that karma? I don't know that's what my Mom says.
2007-08-27 06:35:53 · answer #1 · answered by theladygeorge 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over a year now. Been living together for 6 months.
He is married he has been separated for two years from his so called wife. He and his entire family tell me horror stories of their marriage and how unhappy he was with her and they have never seen him as happy as he has been with me.
Sometimes it bothers me that he is still married after two years but their is a reason behind every breakup. So if I'm considered his mistress then so be it.
We are happy and very much in love.
One of these days when the time is right he will get his divorce we will be married and live happily ever after.
Until then we will live in sin he will continue to be there for me and my children and be the best thing that has ever happened to me. He treats me good and I am only thankful that he is apart of my life now.
2007-08-27 08:27:48 · answer #2 · answered by Valentina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To youcandoit: it isn't only men who cheat. Besides, there are circumstances in which leaving her for the mistress might actually be a good thing, especially if there are children involved and she is either mentally or physically abusive or she is a substance abuser.
Most men never leave their wife for the mistress. Nevertheless, my father managed to do just that.
2007-08-27 06:28:48 · answer #3 · answered by Mathsorcerer 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It`s like the forbidden fruit. The more you are with the mistress, the less you want to be with your wife. In the end , and I find this very amusing,, why in heaven`s name would the man expect the woman to be faithful to him after he leaves his wife? He no longer is the forbidden fruit, the excitement of the relationship takes a back seat, next thing you know he is alone, and she has moved on to another fruit.
2007-08-27 06:28:58 · answer #4 · answered by I tell it like it is 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
funny you should ask this question i am the ex wife of a man who did exactly this.....he has been with her over a year now funny thing is he is 43 she is 22....and pregnant lol....he already has 4 children well we do i should say anyway after the pain subsided i found that life after my marriage ended is wonderful!!!!...i have a man in my life who couldnt be any better then he is...my life is better now then it has ever been .....so i say thank you to the other woman who has him now ...and once a cheater always a cheater right girls
2007-08-27 06:29:04 · answer #5 · answered by Mary G 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I'll let ya know as soon as I find me a mistress.
2007-08-27 06:22:37 · answer #6 · answered by ducksixty8 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
nope, never did... usually cause the fear of my mistress' husband going crazy... not worth it....
for the ones that were not married.... NO WAY,,, they are single for a reason... so I get my licks and head home...
2007-08-27 06:36:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
To all the men who answer this and have left their wives for some skank shame on you and karma will kick you in the ***. For all the skanks who were the mistress shame on you karma will come back and haunt you big time. I don't like this question it makes me soo mad to know how many marraiges fail cus women out there want something that doesn't belong to them and there are guys to go along with it. grrr.
2007-08-27 06:21:40 · answer #8 · answered by youcandoit 4 · 3⤊ 4⤋
Good question!
I would like to know the answer to that as well.
2007-08-27 06:22:17 · answer #9 · answered by Lady T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope, realized what i had. have worked very hard to make it right again. i feel bad for the other woman, but i had to chose and i did.
2007-08-27 06:25:52 · answer #10 · answered by ohiojeff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋