I think i should move on?

Question

Hey guys, its about this friend that i have..If youd wanna see a clearer picture, maybe look at my previous question but it doesnt matter that much really..

Its just that i think, I FEEL that i am waiting for too long for my bestfriend to do something for me. I mean, i've been doing so, and sometimes, i get angry and he gets angry as well.

Recently we've been becoming distant. He isnt as nice to me anymore unlike last time..now he's only nice when i've done or given him something.. although thats not the case most of the time.

I feel that i've been waiting for too long and hanging on this friendship for so long, that i should do something. Can anyone suggest anything for me to say to him before i demote my self to him as a casual friend, and stop being best friends. I mean its really hurting me but i also want him to stay as my bestfriend.IS there anythign that i can tell him so that he can think about what's happening..because since its killing me so much, maybe its the end..

I want to say something to him that would make him think twice that im leaving, so i can see whether he still wants me to remain as a friend...i agree man, it feels kind of fruitless, but the amount of time and money spend with and for him is very large.. i cant forget those..

Answer 1

okay dont lose hope. Maybe you should have a serious talk with him. Get everything out in the open. Maybe you both did something to eachother to start this whole type of distancing thing. Until you know the exact reasons of why they're being like this, you can't resolve anything. Also, sometimes friends don't work out for one reason or another. It's heartbreaking, but people sometimes go separate ways. Listen to your heart and head and if you feel this fight to keep them as a friend is fruitless, move on. That only means there is someone out there deserves your friendship more .

Answer 2

You are more of a friend then he is of you. Don't let him used you, he taking your kindness for weakness. Just let him you have been a good friend to him, and you would do anything for him, tell him you feel he not the friend that he used to be, and that you see a change in this friendship, ask him is it something you did or say. I would take it from their. I wouldn't call him anymore, and see if he calls you after your talk.

Answer 3

omgggg samee w. me! my "best friend" is only nice to me when she needs something done or when she needs help.

tell ur friend ur feelings that he hurts u...
if ur to scared
just stop talking to him and then he'll
lightenn up!


goodluck

Answer 4

So move on