Girls...should I contact her or leave her alone?

Question

My friends bday was 4 days ago and i sent her a msg on myspace cuz i didnt know how often she checked her email cuz i told her we will talk thru myspace, but i sent her a birthday ecard, & i know she viewed it. i havent heard from her yet and i think that since i called her "special" in the myspace message and said "happy birthday! i hope you have an awesome day and party in style. have a drink for me since i cant be there with you" (shes out of country) i think she MAY have taken it the wrong way

i like this girl still but she has made it clear to me that she only wants to be friends...i think my actions for wishing her a bday may have actually backfired and gone the negative way and now she is ignoring me...should i msg her on myspace and just be like "hey, so have a good birthday weekend?" or do you think i shouldnt message her? or just wait and see if she contacts me? i dont want things to be awkward...should i tell her i hope u didnt misintrpret anything? thanks for the help!

Answer 1

Yes I agree with your first reaction.. Be Nonchalant about it and message her and say Hey, so have a good Birthday Week-end?. Act as if you are clueless about anything.

If she mentions something to you about it. Say, I was afraid you had taken it the wrong way.... But hope you had a nice B-day.

Good Luck, faith