i always have been since 5th grade sruggiling with homosexuality. but the begging this year i started hanging out with a new friend and i waws trasnitioning into a str8 person but since school ened its been wose than ever why is this happeeneing
2007-08-27 03:49:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
It's happening because you're a poser. You can't transition into a straight person. you'll make your life hell. accepting yourself is a way of life and a sign that you are growing up and understanding your differences. you need to be able to accept whatever differences you my have in order to live a happy life.
2007-08-27 03:55:31 · answer #1 · answered by Infamous Twit 6 · 3⤊ 3⤋
I know someone who is "gay". His parents ran a gay night spot. From the time he was a very small child, he hung around this bar and learned the attitudes of the gay community. He copied them and they laughed because they thought this behavior was cute. He said that he wishes that he had never gotten into it. Accept that you are a confused human being like everyone else. Associate with straights and you will became straight. You are on the fence. You will be much happier in the long run if you avoid the outer fringes of social behavior. Best wishes. Oh yes, try prayer. It can give you courage.
2007-08-27 11:35:39 · answer #2 · answered by Bibs 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's happening because you are trying to deny who you are. We're born gay/bisexual. You can try to shove it down and deny it exists but that will eventually cause you deep, emotional harm.
Say you DO deny your same sex desires for 15 years and you end up getting married to a wonderful lady. You two bring a child into the world. Allof a sudden those desires come back so strongly that you act on them.
You've just destroyed three lives.
Learn to accept who you are now. It's so much better and healthier in the long run.
2007-08-27 11:02:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
hi.
well reading your notes i do think that there is a big possibilities that you are a gay guy, or at least a bisexual.
the very first rules to obey if you want the others to accept you for who you are:
Accept Yourself.
you have (MUST) to first accept yourself for whom you really are, and be comfortable with yourself. everything of yourself. don't to lie to your own self. you will surely need self-accpetance if you want to live happily.
take care man.
regard,
tony.
2007-08-27 11:05:53 · answer #4 · answered by tonyqcc88 @ Gay Chaoson 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You have to learn to accept yourself and your homosexuality.
There is no such thing as "transitioning" to straight.
Come on. You really don't believe that, do you???
2007-08-27 11:00:23 · answer #5 · answered by JoJo 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
It's because you can't hide who you are anymore. If you are gay and you've known about it for so long you just need to come out and accept yourself. If you don't accept yourself nobody will.
2007-08-27 10:58:43 · answer #6 · answered by Mama Bear 3 · 5⤊ 1⤋
I dont know why to be honest. I wish i can help you out.
2007-08-27 11:54:19 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh,..so what, ....just accept it ....& then go GET-IT-ON...with SOMEBODY!
....you need it ....bad!
2007-08-27 16:09:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋