just about every other way...She is not disrespectful, but I don't want to her to smoke. I have asked her repeatedly, but she will not listen.
2007-08-27 02:21:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I'm sorry but that's in her, and has to come out of her.
2007-08-27 02:27:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find a new girlfriend or stop complaining. let me tell you this you can't change people so stop trying because it's a waste of time and you are gonna resent her in the long run. All you can say is I don't like you smoking and if she continues to smoke then you have to make a decision weather or not this issue is worth ending a relationship. Cut and dry but true. If she wants to stop she will and it will have nothing to do with you believe me. Addiction is a selfish act I know believe me. If she stops it will be because she wants to not you.
2007-08-27 09:55:04 · answer #2 · answered by CSC78 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you cant make anybody do anything they arent ready to do. you must stop pressuring her, because it will just stress her out more nad give her more reason to smoke! Just continue to stand by her and support her, and hopefully she will quit on her own! You can't force someone to quit something if they arent ready, and noone is perfect in every other way either! We are all just human! It is good you care though!
2007-08-27 09:32:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has to be the one to decide when and if she quits. You cannot make her do something she doesn't want to or isn't ready to do. If you continue to badger her about quitting, she will eventually resent you (if she doesn't already). If it bothers you that much then you may be better off finding a non-smoker.
2007-08-27 09:36:07 · answer #4 · answered by astroeyes2000 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't ! It's somethng she has to want to do and it's very hard to quit smoking. A good arguement for you to use is that you worry about her health.
2007-08-27 09:33:12 · answer #5 · answered by tired mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she quits for you, it will be that much harder for her. I understand your desire to see her quit for several reasons, but she has to quit for herself, not for someone else. Hopefully she'll come to understand that you're there for her to help her through it and one day she'll decide to. In the meantime, remember that she smoked before you started seeing her and you can't 'make' her change. Good luck!
2007-08-27 09:29:34 · answer #6 · answered by Beth 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
She was probably a smoker when you met her. You accepted her as she was then, you need to continue to accept her as she is. Don't try to change her. When and if she is ever ready to quit, at least she knows you'll be there to support her.
2007-08-27 09:29:34 · answer #7 · answered by WildOne 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
you cant make someone do something unless they want to do it. you might end up driving her away. just tell her nicely how you feel about her smoking and maybe just ask her not to do it when yall are together
2007-08-27 09:34:29 · answer #8 · answered by Jennifer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey dude, accept her the way she is otherwise go find a non smoker. You can nogt force her to do something she doesnt want to.
2007-08-27 09:28:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sorry hon. Take her as she is or have none of her at all. I learned my lesson long ago. Judge not, lest thou also be judged.
2007-08-27 09:28:41 · answer #10 · answered by Sleek 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋