Now I’m a black women and I personally don’t have a problem with it but I just wanted to know how everyone felt about people dating outside their race? I believe that if you want to date outside your race that’s its ok and no one has the right to say your right on wrong but I do know people who have a big problem with it. Especially black women who see a black man with a white girl. I don’t have a problem with it but I do have a problem with men who say that “ALL YOU BLACK WOMEN HAVE ATTITUDE PROBLEMS”. Now that just not true! I have been out on dates with people outside my race and have had many bad issues with other people around us. I have gotten bad looks and negative comments from other people while on these dates. It sad that people who don’t know me feel that they have the right to tell me who to date and who I should go out with!
2007-08-27 00:57:30 · 15 answers · asked by latoyaevon 3 in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
its how you feel, not anyone else..............do what you like!
2007-08-27 01:05:48 · answer #1 · answered by tony b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel if two people really like each others' company, what does it matter if others have an attitude problem? Can we change others?
I can't! I am an Indian, living in Delhi. Two years back, I went to France all the way from India, for the FIRST time, to go and live for a month with a French lady whom I had dated over the internet, and I felt we'd make it! It was great fun--while it lasted! When we walked all over the streets of Paris, nobody cared that I was a darkie with a fair-skinned lady!
2007-08-27 01:13:43 · answer #2 · answered by thegentle Indian 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a 54 yr. old Caucasian woman raised in the South. I respectfully can explain my own feelings to you, simply because of the time I grew up (50's & 60's).
I remember the day the "taboo" black kids started at my High
School. The guys were our best football players, and the girls tried to impress by dressing like us "white girls".
My co-chief Majorette (a black named Patricia), quickly became my friend. I was raised by parents that were upstanding in the community, and people around me started to accept my friendship with the "new" students. I formed a bond with one of the football players, Charles, but that was only friendship. So far as dating, no one did, but, I truly loved some of my new classmates, and I can see why God has wanted us to be more open in our thinking, putting aside old prejudices and "tabooes". Attitudes are not a color thing, they simply are personality traits that are developed by learned habits from family and others around us.
I hope eventually people will accept interracial couples, as they have asians and whites, mexican and whites, etc.
Again, I'm not biased, but am observant enough to see what you are talking about. Good Luck & Bless You!!
2007-08-27 01:17:55 · answer #3 · answered by teressa j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dated a black girl when I was in the Marines. We went out for about 3 months before I PCS'ed. I don't have a problem with anyone dating anyone, as long as they are happy. I dated an Asian girl for a while, and a half hispanic half Indian. I don't see why it is a big deal to people. I think there are just morons out there.
2007-08-27 01:05:13 · answer #4 · answered by joby10095 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was once raised round exceptional races all my existence, and I continually noticed interracial couples. I honestly certainly not concept some thing of it till my senior 12 months wherein a few folks had been SO in opposition to it. It's fairly dull how a few folks suppose folks must date inside their possess race. I"m married to a biracial and I see folks giving us the "appear" at any time when we cross someplace. You simply maintain relationship who you desire, and do not allow any one convey you down.
2016-09-05 15:43:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a reason why black women are the least married group of people in the United States by far. I think that true love is a very rare thing to find and this world and it should be nurtured and encouraged in any of its forms between whoever it blesses.
2007-08-27 01:29:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I couldn't care less who anyone dates (as long as you’re not an adult trying to date children). But there are people who have issues with interracial dating.
2007-08-27 02:44:59 · answer #7 · answered by kp 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Race/ethnicity is not an issue when choosing someone to date. Really.
2007-08-27 01:05:57 · answer #8 · answered by cdw763 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every person has a different personality. White or Black can have attitude problems.
Whoever they date is their business.
That is my attitude. I just don't have a problem with it.
2007-08-27 01:07:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as their dating within the human race, what's the fuss.
2007-08-27 01:05:20 · answer #10 · answered by ghouly05 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its alright with me, whatever, if they are attractive, and have what your looking, like a personality, then it shouldn't matter the race!
2007-08-27 01:07:34 · answer #11 · answered by Joule 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋