My question is would you remind her of the way you behaved or just let sleeping dogs lye
She seem to have just forgiven and forgotten but I think its only right to confess that I was stupid and unthinking what do you guys and girls think
2007-08-27 00:07:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Having been bullied myself at school let me tell you this
I am now 34 but the kids that bullied me at school are the ones I remember best. I think I remember every incident and every mean word and it has shaped me as a person and it took many years to get my self esteem back to an ok level. My point is I'm sure she hasn't forgotten she just worked on herself and moved on with her life.
It's really up to you to do the right thing and take responsibility for your actions, I think you will find it will help you grow as a person as well. Why not ask her out for a coffee?
Good luck
2007-08-27 00:18:53 · answer #1 · answered by CC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-05 15:40:27 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you're adults, you realize you say things at school that don't mean anything. So, I made fun of her when I was 15. I'm now 25, a different person, and I probably don't hold the same system of beliefs when I was a kid. I'm a changed person.
I think apologies are all inherent when you go to reunions, or see someone you haven't seen in a long time. Kids are kids. You don't have to apologize for being one when you were younger.
2007-08-27 00:12:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah the things are forgotten-though she may not forgotten all. Just behave nicely with her now. That's my opinion.
2007-08-27 00:12:29 · answer #4 · answered by Theta40 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the proper thing to do would be apologize--maybe not for a while but do it sometime.--at least before there is to be a relationship. This is not something a girl would forget. This may have been her goal in life. Seriously.
2007-08-27 00:24:36 · answer #5 · answered by old_woman_84 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first of all I don't think she couldn't have forgotten this kind of things. If you want to stay friends, you should apologise to her for being a jerk, but if you never want to see her again, it's no use stirring her memory.
2007-08-27 00:16:41 · answer #6 · answered by danielle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it seems like she was really really hurt back then when you teased her than you probably should apologise. If you don't apologise you'll probably always feel a bit awkward around her. If its just a fun short term thing though then it doesn't really matter
2007-08-27 00:23:10 · answer #7 · answered by kelby_lake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i think you should apoligise..Nobody should be treated the way you treated her
2007-08-27 00:10:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's over and she has moved on, why bring it up?
2007-08-27 00:11:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
say sorry dont be an asshole
2007-08-27 00:16:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋