Girls please help !!!!?

Question

HI I'm nearly 5 months pregnant and for the past 3 days all i've done its cry cry cry cry cry and i've been takin it out on my partner i just get the feelin he dont love me anymore like this morning i got u first then a half hour later he got up got straight in to the shower and then went out to morrisons but normally when he wakes up he huggs me and tells me he loves me and would ask me to go morrisons is it just me or not its my first pregnancy i feel like i should just go

and just stay at my mums for abit

Answer 1

Oh this is completely normal. Your hormones are raging and all out of whack.

Just take some time to yourself and get yourself calm. And then go to your partner and apologize and tell him your body is just all crazy and that you don't mean anything by it when you go nutso on him. Hopefully he will be understanding of what you are going through and will try to help you when you have these moments.

Good luck :)

Answer 2

I wouldn't worry about it. He's going through changes just as much as you are. You should tell him though he's not the one who is making you upset because if he is anything like my boyfriend he would say something like "Everything I say or do to you upsets or hurt you so I am going to just leave you alone." It aint him doing anything. After pregnancy the same thing can happen too you can get the baby blues my new baby (my third) was born 8/17 and I had them last week my boyfriend played football in high school and everytime I saw someone in a football uniform last week I would cry??? Don't ask lol. But I aint feeling that way no more. So what you need to do is talk to him and tell him that women are hormonal and experience pregnancies differently. Some women are angry the whole time their pregnant, some worry, some cry. Aint nothing wrong with you so you shouldnt be going no where!

Answer 3

Oh lordy, welcome to the world of mother hood! It is so normal and there is nothing wrong with you or hubby.
He probably knew the best place for him to be, was out of the house. because you and him together, when you are a bundle of raging hormones and he doesn't know what to do to make you feel better, is not going to be a good match.

Take some time to relax in a warm bath with a glass of wine (yes it is okay to have one glass!!) and a good book. Then when he gets home tell him your sorry about being so weird and crying and ask him to be patient with you. You are new to this whole pregnancy thing too and are still adjusting to it.
I'm sure he still loves you and don't stay with your mum, it won't fix anything, but it will delay the inevitable. Do something totallly un-baby'ish together and remember that you are a couple before you are parents so nuture that.

Good luck and congrats on baby!

Answer 4

HORMONES lol every1 gets them even more so when havin a baby,and at 5months i take it you,ve got a bump so your also probably feelin low about your self?i did the whole cry cry cry thing and even more so when i just add my little lad cause i was so tired an everything was new,it will pass an just speak to your partner an say how your feelin an tell him a little more tlc would be great....good luck hun

Answer 5

Don't worry about it! I think all you need to do at the moment is be with your partner, explain to him about how you are feeling. He will be trying to understand what you are going through, but he wont ever know. You just have to talk about everything...and i mean everything.
That happened to me about 12 days ago, my husband had to go and pick something up from down south, and it was all a last minute thing, my brother was taking him down and when he turned up my husband just left. Now he never goes anywhere with out kissing me and saying goodbye. I was devastated and i called him up to ask why and we spoke about it when he got back and i said how i felt, and he explained that he didn't realise and was in a hurry, but apologised! And everything was ok then. You just need to talk, and if after you have and still feel like you need to go and stay at your mums for a few days, then go...but tell your partner why and that everything is ok.
Good Luck x

Answer 6

Hormones, Hormones, Hormones i am completely the same!! crying at the most stupid things, even at adverts at the moment!!! Dont read too much into things, were all the same us women, and i dosnt help when your pregnant!!! Just try to calm down a little, explain to your partner that you cant help it, and hopefully this will work. Your partner has to understand that your body is working over time to protect the baby, and also to protect you!!!
It will calm down, just gotta be patient!!!
You will be fine, enjoy your pregnancy, you have been blessed with this gift embrace it!!!!!

Answer 7

Don't worry dear all days are not equal. You should understand your husband first, his problems, then expect something for you from him. Just plan a dinner outside and ask him reason for ignoring you and just have a passion. Tension and stress is not good for you in this situation so relax and talk to your husband, atleast you can minimise your communication gap through this and realize him that you love him and in this critical situation you and your child want his love and cooperation at all the times.

Thanks

Answer 8

It is just your hormones. I did the same thing very recently. He is probably just trying to stay out of your way and not do anything to make you get upset. Men think differently so his avoidance of you is not AVOIDANCE but a carefully laid out plan to not get yelled at or have to try and console you when nothing he says or does will be right anyways. Cut him a break, after all, he is only a man.

Answer 9

Tell me do, where the heck is morrisons? Anyway, just tell him how much you love him , that youre sorry for being such a sook, and youre trying hard to get over this feeling. Its all part of pregnancy, but dont shut him out, and dont go to mummies. !!!

Answer 10

No it's not only you. It happens to the best of us. Yeah you might have taking it out on your partner which by now he might be a bit pissed off with you, but that does not mean he doesn't love you, OK? He might have had enough, just like you. Talk to him and see if he wants you to go away to your mothers. It might be good for you and for him. But do talk to him first before you take any actions. Good Luck!