My huby earn about US $6,000 per month.
He do not like maid neither 3rd party in the house so im the maid & almost every night i got to be his mesus or making love.
Which is very tiring!!!
I got a degree & i could earn better if im working.
He just give me US$500 per mth include the groceries & we went holiday only 2 x per YEAR!!!
i am just asking for another trip this year. Then he was angry.
I already help to pay US100,000 for the house & he need to pay only about US$1,000 for car & home bill every mth.
2007-08-26 16:52:04 · 12 answers · asked by branded boobs 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I know you don't know how spoiled you are but my god lady you are. You also don't know how luck you are to have a nice home car husband and two vacations a year plus you could have a maid if you wanted. Come on and stop before your husband really gets tired of you and leaves you.There are a lot of women that would love to take your place i bet their are some right where your husband works so watch your back because before you know what happened some young thing will be moving in your home while you are out living with your mum and dad.
2007-08-26 17:01:21 · answer #1 · answered by Teenie 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I seem that your issue is not whether you are asking too much, you are just not happy with the current situation. In fact, You should ask him for at least US2000 per month include groceries. Keep the extra money, and you can go for trip yourself as many time as you want.
If he refused, why not just find a job, and share the house chores with him.
2007-08-26 19:56:05 · answer #2 · answered by Tan D 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe he will give you more if you just clean the house without complaining. Sounds like luxury to me :-).
But, judging from your other questions, you just seem plain unhappy with this marriage. Why don't you just leave? If you can make money with your degree, then you do not need him!
2007-08-26 16:58:42 · answer #3 · answered by Susan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
good lord what does he do for a living i need to get into that. if my wife was pulling down that kind of money i'd gladly play house husband. if you want to go to work you should talk to him and come to some kind of agreement or compromise
2007-08-26 17:02:39 · answer #4 · answered by PhantomWiseman 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YOU get to go on 2 vacations per year.... and he doesn't want you to work outside your home? LUCKY YOU! Count your blessings honey! Some ppl don't even get to go on one holiday a year!
2007-08-26 16:59:27 · answer #5 · answered by Linda S 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No you are not, it sounds as if he is a bit controlling over you. Put your foot down let him know you are just as equal as he is in this marriage, why should you get an allowance you are not a child, you take what you need let him you and go buy what you need to buy. And if he gets a bent out of shape, then get a job and send your money anyway you please.
2007-08-26 16:59:49 · answer #6 · answered by Brezzy 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You don't have a degree by the way you spell. If you were smart you would divorce him, take him for half and move on.
Other wise shut the ***** up.
2007-08-26 22:32:36 · answer #7 · answered by Arvind N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It bad mam,me earn more and i gave all to my wife.She will pay all the bill and she gave me back any amount i need.Till now our finacial very good and stable.My wife happy and my self happy.Why not your husband do the same?
2007-08-26 17:01:06 · answer #8 · answered by Alexis 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, you should back off.
A women needs to know her place and that is taking care of the house and kids if you have them and listen to her man
2007-08-26 17:00:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Any reason why you aren't working? You mentioned that you could. Then he would not need to give you any money.
2007-08-26 17:00:36 · answer #10 · answered by banana6464 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋