I don't think I can ever Love someone again!!!!?

Question

My heart has been broken too many times and I don't think I want it to happen again!! It is killing me not to have someone but i am afraid i will get hurt again!!! Please help me!!
I love you P&S!!!!!

Answer 1

I have the same problem as you do. Just know that when the right one come's you will just know it. I cannot explain it, but you will just know, and you won't feel afraid to open your heart once again to love & to be loved. :) Cheer up. Have a good evening. Ciao:}

Answer 2

Anyone that has ever dealt with love, has been hurt at some time :{

But look at what you are losing if you stay alone for the rest of your life.
It took me a long time, a lot of hard times, alot of grief, alot of stress, alot of tears, but I would do it all over again if I knew this is where it would get me.
Love isn't easy, but "true" love is the best thing in the world.
What is your life going to be like without risking it ?
It's going to be very lonely.
You just have to find the right one.

Like they say:
"It's Better To Have Love And Lost, Then To Have Never Loved At All".

Answer 3

there was a time if you think through from the start to the end of the relationship like a movie where you had a hint of what was to come. if you can pinpoint that moment, you can see it next time with the new person that shows up in your life --and perhaps make a better choice in a relationship.

and --we don't fall in love often, but you will. just might not be the time frame that you want.

Answer 4

Honey, you have got to kiss alot of frogs to find that prince.
But if you have had a string of losers, then take a break from the kissing altogether.
Take some time to fall in love with YOURSELF. Set goals for yourself (education, friendships, to read more, a better relationship with your higher power, etc) and work on achieving them. Learn how not to let YOURSELF down and you may then be ready to pucker up again.

Answer 5

You're never going to be able to love anyone until you stand on your own two feet and are happy to love just one person....YOU.

Why do you have to "have someone". You don't need someone to validate you.

This is why you are constantly heartbroken because you don't have a clue who you are so how can you possibly pick the right person to be with? Don't blame the guy either...you're half of the problem. Sorry to sound harsh but that is the truth of it.

Answer 6

You can love again, but you have to be careful. When I was younger, my father would always tell me never to give my heart away. Once you do you get hurt. It's really hard to restrain your feelings but it helps when the person isn't right. Cheer up and good luck!

Answer 7

you will love someone again when that certain someone comes around and take down those bricks that you built around your heart.
I felt the same way til my husband came into my life and took those bricks away one by one around my heart. I am very glad that he found me and showed me what real love is.
Give it time it takes awhile to mend a broken heart.

Answer 8

honey i'm going through the same thing. i'm still so heart broken from my last boyfriend and i splitting up and it's been 9 months. but it takes the experiences and the pain to finally find someone. plus, if you're young you have time

good luck

Answer 9

You will love again. Just from now on plan on the possibility of being heartbroken again. If you are ready for the blow it doesn't hurt as bad as a sucker punch.

Answer 10

Sure you can. Pick yourself up and dust yourself off. Take a good hard look in the mirror and ask yourself why you think you NEED someone. When you become self-sufficeint, the significant others will flock,