i have been in a long distance relationship for approx 3yrs now, in the past year we have been drifiting apart, we decided to try to see if i break would help, started yesterday... i feel like i miss her, but not sure if its her or the things i am used too. the break is for like week and half to see how things go.. i feel that abreak is a step towards a break up.. everyone i spoke to says just to follow my heart but i really feel that my heart does want to be with her, but my mind says its a bad idea plus a few of my friends to think so :( any thoughts?
2007-08-26 13:08:55 · 6 answers · asked by Logi M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
hun, long distanct never ever works
2007-08-26 13:19:24 · answer #1 · answered by blondebeauty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK - right now - put aside the good advice from your friends. They speak from their own experience, which may not be yours.
Unfortunately, long distance relationships don't work very well. It's too easy to drift apart. Relationships take work, which means time together, conversations, doing things together, etc... If you want to be with her and feel that's the right thing, perhaps a change in geography is in order?
2007-08-26 13:15:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a really poor situation you're in! If you want to keep trying.. I wish you luck, but she has to want it too. Hopefully you can see eachother soon
2007-08-26 13:13:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My opinion? If your gut tells you she's not the one. Then break it off now before you hurt her more.
2007-08-26 13:14:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you all agreed to this i would say move on and find someone more to your liking old rememodies are nothign new and its like used to but getting on is best when its like this to you its not true love.
2007-08-29 17:18:16 · answer #5 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay friends and try to meet in person so you can stay friends!!!
2007-08-26 13:13:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋