what do i do to prepare family members for my suicide?

Answer 1

Save up some money and go DisneyLand or DisneyWorld
with some of your family members.

Answer 2

While I do not condone suicide, I will answer your question. You draw up a will and file it with your county clerk's office. Also, make certain your debts are paid. This will make it much easier on your family. I strongly suggest that you also draw up a living will. Something like 90% of suicide attempts fail. Most of those are pretty horrific to live with afterwards and leave the person quite debilitated.

I strongly urge you to call a crisis hotline or 911. There is nothing wrong with being depressed. There is nothing wrong with seeking medical attention for such depression. Please, get help.

I just read through the answers that are previous to mine. Every last one of them is selfish and unfeeling. I know what it is like to want to die. In fact, I know what it is like to want every single breath you take to be your last. Yes, things really do get that bad. You have every right to feel that way. I won't tell you that you should commit suicide. That is YOUR decision. But, from my own experience, there are things that can help. I wish you the best.

Answer 3

Explain why you are better than the rest of them. Share with them as to why you are going to cause them more pain than you'll be in.

It is unfortunate that you have reached this point; however how bad can it be? If your family does not care and this is part of the reason, then you do not need to prepare them at all - Do you?

If you are terminally ill, well, while not in your position I would have to believe that there is another way.

If you fee slighted and just want to give up.. well - how do you know what tomorrow will bring?

I do hope you consider your decision.. I do not think you need to follow- through. Nothing can be that bad.

I do hope to see an update from you....

Trust in those around you... even if you are the only one there.

I wish you well!

Answer 4

I would start with a depressed, angry rant about how you hate your life.

A couple of days later, attempt suicide, but don't quite pull it off. Slitting the wrists, maybe. That's always a good one.

After the 'hub-bub' dies down, you can go ahead and do it for real. Since you have already tried once, the family won't be as shocked to find you dead.

ARE YOU KIDDING ME? They are your family, and they love you. These people remember you as a wide-eyed and innocent child that loved life. They will be distraught no matter how you do this. See a professional. They can give you happy pills. I take HUGE amounts of Prozac for depression. I didn't want to at first, but it beats living in pain. And it's WAY better than death.

Answer 5

Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. Things change constantly and sometimes it's hard to get through the next minute, mush less the night ...... If you did kill yourself, your family and friends would hurt so much and there is nothing that is worth killing yourself over. Seek help....I'm sure there is a 800 number for suicide help. Stop and think.... for every action there is a reaction and it's up to us on how we react to the action. Good or bad, happy or sad. It's about choices. Please make the best one and live. The pain will go away in time.

Answer 6

There is no way to prepare loved ones for suicide. Coming from someone who has been through this with my dad I can tell you it was the most devastating thing I have ever been through. My husband and I found him along with my two children who were 1 and 5 at the time. He had shot himself in the head. I will never get rid of that image. I spent so much time blaming myself and wondering if I should have done anything differently. PLEASE talk to someone and get some help if you are thinking about it. Don't hurt so many people.

Answer 7

If this question is a joke - not funny. If you are serious, nothing will prepare them. My 24 year old nephew did this recently. His brothers ( especially the one who found him) are devastated and in counseling. His father has gone off the deep end, drinks and takes drugs all day, and can no longer work. His grandmother has gone into a deep depression and is basically waiting to die. His friends have all suffered wondering if there was anything they could have done to prevent it. Prepare someone for suicide? Not possible.

Answer 8

Ask yourself what you'd expect from them to prepare you for their suicide if they decided they wanted to kill themselves.

Is there anything that would prepare you for that? Would it somehow make you feel better if a family member somehow "prepared" you for their death? Or would you consider them selfish for killing themselves and leaving you here to feel the pain of them being gone?

When you can answer these questions honestly, you will know what to do.

Answer 9

since suicide is the most selfish act imaginable, you should reconsider it. You have no idea how incredibly painful and life altering a suicide in the family is. get help. now.

Answer 10

Get counseling. Do you really want to hurt everyone around you that much? There is no reason to take your own life. Things get bad and then they get worse and then they get better and then they get great and then they get bad and then great.... that's life. Never cheat yourself of the chance to make others wince when they see you coming...... (sarcasm). But without knowing why you think you want to kill yourself, it is hard to talk some sense into you. Just don't do it.