i have just had a miscarriage over a week ago and my bleeding is almost stopped. i still have some spotting.
i am getting over my loss but its been hard since i cannot be intimate sexually with my husband. my doctor advised to wait till my after my next period before having sex.
we are considering manual stimulation but we're worried if having an orgasm will hurt me in any way?
thanks.
please , no rude replies please.
2007-08-26 12:05:27 · 9 answers · asked by uche 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
the answer is having an orgasm can accually help you recover from the miscarriage. and with out being rude... stimulating of the nipple will help with the healing... contractions you get during stimulation and climax can help the uterus.....BTW having intercource before a six week interval after the birth canal being opened either for birth or a miscarriage make getting pregnant again easier. And you need to heal completely before trying again. But manual stimulation or oral stimulation can help heal not hurt...Intimacy is important after a miscarriage
2007-08-26 12:16:04 · answer #1 · answered by lady_did_it_again 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as there is no penetration you should be fairly okay. The risk with sex of any kind at this point is the introduction of bacteria to your uterus. Since you are still having a bit of bleeding it means you still have a wound where the placenta was that coud become infected.
Also consider that having an orgasm can cause you to experience stronger cramps if you are still healing.
I'm sorry for your loss. I went through that a year ago and it tore me up inside!
2007-08-26 12:13:20 · answer #2 · answered by starfire978 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it won't hurt the uterus is the largest muscle in the body it won't brake it. But sex after a miscarriage was hard emotionally and uncomfortable for me. It may not be a bad idea to hold off until the bleeding stops completely sorry for your loss I've had 4 myself.
2007-08-26 12:12:24 · answer #3 · answered by Leesa T 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It shouldn't be a problem. If I'm correct, an orgasm occurs when the clitoris is stimulated and that's pretty far down the reproductive tract from the uterus.
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2014-09-29 16:05:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nope, not a problem for what you are describing. However, if you had surgery (ex. D&C), I'd ask the doctor before proceeding. Generally, though, it's only a risk for women who have had more invasive surgeries.
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2014-09-11 05:47:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I had 2 miscarriages, and my doctor told me to wait at least 6 wks before having sex to make sure my body was healed. They also tell you no sex, b/c they don't want you to risk getting pregnant so soon after your body has suffered such trauma. For now, just let your husband hold you and comfort you. Sex can wait--and please bear in mind, you both have to want it. Don't feel like you have to give in just b/c he wants it. Make sure you are ready and that your body is ready..
You take care of yourself!! And make sure you aren't lifting heavy things for at least 2 wks--or exercising!!!
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