I am 22 years old and my girlfriend is 36 we been going out for a year now and have a strong connection. She was honest with me telling me she had cheated on me with a man she met at a bar one night, had got drunk and blacked out from what she said and ended up at his place after. She is telling me she is so sorry and won't ever happen again. Also she is saying she's in love with me I love her too what should i do i need help..
2007-08-26 11:53:58 · 8 answers · asked by MATT 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If she is telling you the truth, then she is sincere! That incident happen after a few drinks. Forgive her and give a second chance.
2007-08-26 19:40:26 · answer #1 · answered by Roohan Selvan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all your 22! You have your whole life ahead of you. You need to get over this chick. Of course she wants you back, you are young, goodlooking, and she loves the fact that she has a younger man. This girl is irresponsible, and i dont care how drunk you are it is not an excuse. She is not a good girl, no good girl would put themselves in that situation and would never have left with the guy. And if she really blacked out maybe she should be considering the fact that she was raped. Obviously she knew what she was doing. LEAVE HER! you are gonna meet some hott older or younger chick soon. She needs you more than you need her. You may love her, but this girl does not love you if shes looking at other men and leaving with them at a bar. TRUST ME!
2007-08-26 19:13:00 · answer #2 · answered by GLOW 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can forgive and forget, yes. I would sit down and have a discussion with her about drinking so much she blacks out. Does she do this often? Also I have found that is usually an excuse, I got so drunk I don't remember, make sure it's not one you will be hearing again any time soon.
2007-08-26 19:11:03 · answer #3 · answered by ophirhodji 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is using you as her toy. Given the age difference, when she wants a younger man she will turn to you. Otherwise I doubt you will see her much. Move on and enjoy life without the games.
2007-08-26 19:09:03 · answer #4 · answered by dsrtrat 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No B..dust your shoulders and move on..
That woman is playin' you..
For one she's much older so you're handicapped from the jump off, right there as she has been through more sh*t than you and is supposedly more mature, secondly that ''i go drunk'''-alibi is a bunch of BS..
I'm tellin' you son you're gettin' played..
2007-08-26 19:03:53 · answer #5 · answered by Esm[][]th 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well blacking out? that means she drinks alot and i think you must knw ths isn't marriage marterial yu will have lots of problems if you ever marry her and you will end up in divorce i would say good bye now.
2007-08-30 00:14:00 · answer #6 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just one more chance. And only if you believer her! I 'm not sure, I would.
2007-08-26 19:10:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she will only do it again some other time
2007-08-26 19:01:07 · answer #8 · answered by mike d 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋